how do u get over a break up?<:(?

Question

me n my boy friend broke up n i don't know wha to do we have been going out 4-3 month's n he's my 1st boy friend can some one help:(

Answer 1

The only thing, honey, that will really help is "time". I've always said, "Time takes care of everything". Think about it....any problem you've ever had....after time passes, things usually settle. As each day passes, the hurt will be that much less. Trust me.

Answer 2

I am going through the same thing and trust me It is the hardest thing I have to deal with I saw her today and it was unbearable. But I can tell you please dont hold your self back from crying because crying cleanses the soul :) And everything happens for a reason so If you guys are meant to be then you'll end up together so my best advice is grieve and stop talking to him for about 2-3 weeks and then see how you feel. And if that doesnt work you need to just stop seeing him and just talk on the phone for awhile. You will get over it eventually Time heals all wounds

Answer 3

You should take some time out and cry. Cry hard and as loud as you can. By the time you physcially cannot cry anymore, you'll feel a little bit of emotional relief.

I'm not sure why you two broke up because you didn't specify, but for whatever the reason, perhaps you two just needed some time apart. Maybe it'll work out in the end, but know if it doesn't, it wasn't meant to be.

Answer 4

aww first break ups are always the hardest feelings are all new, just try and spend lots of time with your friends having fun and going out, try doing things you enjoy to get your mind off of things, go to a movie go shopping. but dont sit at home and cry and think about it, if it was meant to be it'll happen. In life, theres always this one special person that will come along and sweep you off your feet when the time is right!

Answer 5

Time

Answer 6

Breakups are always tough, especially when he's your first boyfriend. Hang in there though, time really does heal just about everything. In less than a month I'm sure a new guy will have caught your eye. :]

Answer 7

Think of the mean and harsh things he did to you. Unless it was a gentle break up. Then you have an issue. I mean if you still have mad feelings for this kid try to start over.

Answer 8

if ur not friends than u should start to be and talk more and just hang out and be friends instead of bf and gf thats all i can tell u cuz me and my bf broke up and i loved him to death but were still friends and we talk and stuff and its all cool so yeah!

Answer 9

it just takes time- i ended up married to my first love. if its meant to be youll be back together even if it is 5 years down the road

Answer 10

there is more fishhe sea believe me time heals all wounds it will get better. hang in there and spend more time with your friends to pass the time away.