Why does he break my heart when he knows how much i love him?

Question

Every time we go out we spend lots of time togather. When he starts to like someone else he goes and breaks my heart. When he knows that I love him more than anything. I love him so much but, I can't take it anymore. I'm just hurting my self more and more when I think about him. Everytime when he looks at me I start to cry because he realy hurt me and I just wish that I was with him. But i need to get over him fast because I don't wan't him to hurt me again. My heart will always be broken because of how much he hurt me when he knows how much I love him.

Answer 1

he's just not that into you - read the book!!!

Answer 2

Hey Lady! Put an end to your misery and let him go. Would you want a guy who doesn't return your love? Just accept the hurtful fact that the guy is not in love with you....ACCEPTANCE is the first step towards healing. Cry out loud, cry all day if you want , but after several days of mourning (just to give respect for you what you feel), MOVE ON and forget about him. Don't contact him anyway...and that includes fishing info from friends and common acquiatances.....

I'm pretty sure there's a perfect guy for you out there! All you need to do is dump that worthless guy and go find your true match.

Answer 3

stop saying your heart will always be broken. i'm not gonna give you the same old stuff: just remember the good parts blah blah blah... all you do from here is continue, you've learned, and it will be wonderful when you can apply all you learned here with another guy. i'm not saying go with another guy, all i'm saying is take ur time to let the pizza cool. in some time, however long it takes u u'll start being ur regular self again and u'll feel great. this was just a bumpy ride. turbulence is over. so relax. feel pretty, be s.e.x.y. and be funny and go slowly. in fact u don't even have to do anything at all; just take deep breaths when u begin to think about it. take walks on the park... listen to reggaeton

Answer 4

hilary - you seem pretty young and i feel like i went through the same thing as you when i was younger -

i really cared about this guy and he was seeing a girl behind my back. he used to make me cry all the time.

you need to be strong and let this be a lesson learned - what kind of man you do NOT want to be with.

if he loves you he wouldnt make your cry right ? - no sense in trying to make him love you. he obviously is young and wants to play the field - let him --- but so cant you. by dating a lot of boys you can find a great one out there! one that will treat you right.

and trust me if he makes you cry - he is not for you - someone that cares about you shouldnt make you feel that way.

good luck dont worry time heals. you will get over him. specially if hes acting like a jerk.

Answer 5

First off he breaks your heart over and over because you love him and you let him.
If you want to break the cycle you can. Understand a broken heart is hard to get over, but it can be done.
Don't go out with him anymore. Yes you will cry and miss him.
Give yourself time before you start dating again. Go out with groups of people.
In the mean time get a hobby. It might help you not to think of him 24-7.

Answer 6

For one thing, it is NOT your fault. You can't control anyone for their actions. I feel for you a lot. I think the best thing to do is to get some emotional support. I think you should move on and find someone who will treat you like a queen. If he truly cared about you, he would not put you through pain. Wish you the best of luck.

Answer 7

i know wat this is like, the best thing for you is to move on and try and understand that if he doesn't love u for the beautiful person u are, then he doesn't deserve u. there is someone out there that will fall in love with u and be sooo in love that they will do absolutely anything for u, and that's truly wat love it about. i know how much ur hurting, but the best thing to do (and i take this from personal experience) is to get out there and try to mix with a whole lot of different people, that way ull realise that there are so many more people out there that are worth ur love. if he knows hes hurting u, he doesn't deserve u. i hope this all works out for u :-)

Answer 8

i know its hard, but you need to let him go. You deserve so much better than that. You'll find a guy who will treat you with respect. Its definitely not good for your heart & soul to be with somebody who hurts you all the time.

Answer 9

for one that hurt and love will fade with time...but you need to distance yourself from him. so stop hanging out with and hang out with your girlfriends instead.

A way to get over him fast and build up your self esteem is to go have a fling...just hook up with a dude who will take you out on a fri/sat night and have mean less sex after wards. just don't make it serious and make sure he knows it's nothing serious its just a good time. Stay single for awhile and hang with girlfriends and play the field for awhile. You'll totally forget about him like 3 mo's and wonder WHAT u ever saw in a loser like him who wouldn't treat you good...when there's plenty of dudes knocking down your door wanting to take you out and have a good time. Just remember to be yourself and be confident....the dudes will come.

Good Luck

Answer 10

Stop blaming HIM for hurting YOU. He obviously isn't as interested in you as you are in him...stop going out with him if YOU don't want to get hurt. It's up to YOU. The only way he CAN hurt you is if you ALLOW him to, that's not his fault that is YOUR'S. Grow up and start taking responsiblity for your own actions. Since you're not mature enough to handle relationships and sometimes rejections I suggest you not get involved in anymore for awhile.

Answer 11

it is always a terrible thing when one loves and is not loved back this is clearly that case