my neighbout is a single mom of 2, 15 and 8 years old girls, she doen's work, just sit on her fat a** and collecting doles, also she claims disability, but i don't see anything wrong with her, she walks normal, though she is quite obses. She yells and screams at her kids on a daily basis, is this typical with single mom?
2007-02-08 14:31:25 · 10 answers · asked by df a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i'd like to say no, but sadly it probably is. i mean i know heaps of single mums who are really out there trying to make their life better but there are definitely a lot who stay home collecting the dole never planning to work. some of them want to be with their kids which is fine if they r doing a good job raising them properly but a lot of them are just slack. once their kids r at school they have no excuse to be sitting home all day , they can at least work during school time.
to some of them though, the amount they would earn working is not much more than the amount they get for nothing, so they dont have the motivation to work. maybe if the dole was reduced theyd have no choice but to get off the a s s and work.
2007-02-08 14:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by zimba 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of the millions of people with disabilites, some you can see and some you cannot---but the issue is--it is not a nice thing to judge someone without all the details---and asking or accusing would be insensitive--put yourself in that spot--would you want somebody spying or accusing you? She probably has a bad life--highly uncomfortable, over stressed trying to support 2 kids---I would just say try to either not look at it or see if you can be of any help---the collecting of dolls is a way to escape for a while--better than drugs or drinking--completely harmless---and yelling at the kids is maybe a way she communicates---probably form years or a conditioned behavior---completely normal for them. Just be nice and be understanding
2007-02-08 16:33:14 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Where in the hell do you live? I busted my **** to get a degree while working full time, living on my own. I now work full time, have a mortgage and student loans and a 7 year old who is very active (sports and academics). I am surrounded by single parent friends who struggle every day to manage their work and home lives to provide for their children and be there for them as much as possible.
I'm sorry you have such a miserable waste of oxygen for a neighbor, but how DARE YOU (and you too, ZIMBA) sit at your computer, apparently ignorant to the world beyond your bedroom window, generalizing and slandering an army of kick-***, educated, hard-working single parents who adore their children and support their families with no assistance?!
It would be much more effective to call children's services on this parent who is verbally abusive to her children, or contact the welfare system to report what you apparently suspect is fraud, and to focus your energy on something more productive than slamming the lot of us who don't have the perfect cookie-cutter lives.
!!!
2007-02-08 14:48:02 · answer #3 · answered by ~Biz~ 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think so. It sounds like your neighbor is a real slug. She is working the system but married people sometimes do the same, and single people. Many single moms are hard working good parents. Just be glad you are not in her family.
2007-02-08 14:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
they do no longer supply human beings adequate funds to warrant them having 14 infants to get it. no longer purely that, how lots do you think of it takes to help that comparable fourteen infants. the mum and dad protest too lots. maximum individuals these days have not got even the six infants she already had. the place have been they whilst all this replaced into happening. assume they did no longer have them of their residing house? do you think of she might have long previous out and had extra if she had to discover them some place to stay? maximum landlords might say, 'fill out the appliance and we are going to call whilst we've a emptiness. " no longer this lady is mentally off, has been for years and has no longer gotten the attention she needs. could have been extra effective to grant regardless of care she necessary. could have been extra value-effective that procuring 8 infants forf 18 years. that is not any longer approximately welfare
2016-11-02 22:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a single mom, I have a 6 year old daughter and I work, infact I have 3 jobs. I don't think that I could sit on my butt and do nothing I would go in sane.my daughter means everything to me and I want the best for her.
2007-02-08 15:02:50 · answer #6 · answered by lill_dude_31 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
HELL your so bold and righteous. know it all... and you show great concern for the poor children involved get the police and social services to YOUR home to intervene with her household ..its obviously chaotic according to you..and not good for the children.. do you really know or take time to know that your neighbor does her best.. despite her disability.. perhaps you are UN informed about what is actually wrong with her.. maybe she wants and needs your face to face christian help and not your judgment.. look at your own
2007-02-08 14:44:07 · answer #7 · answered by squawwitoutamule 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a normal $lut to me. Why do you think her kids are 7 years apart? She had the second one so she can stay on welfare a 6 years longer. Amazing these woman can find someone to impregnate them, but then who said men think with their heads. Please stop calling her a single mom, she is a $lut with bastards.
2007-02-08 15:56:37 · answer #8 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, she is not typical. Just lazy. I would report her fat a55.
2007-02-08 15:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some, Not all
2007-02-08 14:42:05 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋