This is kindof confusing but here goes. So i had a boyfriend and my best friend has a boyfriend and we were all BEST FRIENDS. We did everything together. Our boyfriends were best friends and we were best friends. But then all of a sudden my bf starts flirting with other girls and a bunch of other stuff so we are no longer together. I've had feelings for my best friends bf for a while now and im pretty sure he likes me too. Now heres the tricky part....My best friend hates when i talk to her boyfriend cuz she thinks we both like eachother (which i think we do, i think) so i was talking to him and we talked about all the fights they had and we are both annoyed beyond belief about this. I think hes gonna break up with her but im not sure. He keeps telling me to not listen to her and for her not to get in the way of our friendship......What do i do?
2007-02-08 14:28:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And by the way *he* is my best friend also and he was my best friend before she was so, yeahh...
2007-02-08 14:38:34 · update #1
oooo you are screwed....
2007-02-08 14:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by watisman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ball is in his court. If he has feelings for you then let him prove it by choosing YOU. He's more likely trying to play both of you at the same time, or have you as a "backup" in case his current gf goes bad!
2007-02-08 14:34:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anomaly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what I never understood why women liked other women men!! Anyways, don't talk to your bestfriend boyfriend; unless you care nothing about your bestfriend. Look up the meaning of friend and tell me what you get!
2007-02-08 14:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by Proud Mommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that he loves you? dont you mind your long made friendship is broken just because of an uncertained fling? I think the best answers lies in yourself! Good luck!
2007-02-08 14:36:05 · answer #4 · answered by nadirah_alwanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you are compleatly crossing the line . the thought of even liking your bf man should not have even crossed your mind and if i was your friend and i would have even thought you liked him i would have kicked your *** and we would no longer be friends , so if u value your friendship cut it out before she does find out and u ruin your relationship with your bf. men come a dome a dozen. don't be an idiot and play yourself!
2007-02-08 14:35:06 · answer #5 · answered by imbossy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will lose your best friend if you do anything with him. Try to keep you friendship a little more casual with him and don't flirt.
2007-02-08 14:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know that her boyfriend likes you, talk to him.
the worst thing to do at this time is to lie. So be sure not to lie!
2007-02-08 14:32:00 · answer #7 · answered by *Music ♥ Love* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry. Just only two options for you. A trisome or nothing.
2007-02-08 14:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by devid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go find a different guy to like. would you have liked it if she had done what your doing to her? most likely not. besides wouldn't you want someone who would be faithfull and beable to trust him around your friends?
2007-02-08 14:39:22 · answer #9 · answered by sweet sweet me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with each outher
2007-02-08 14:31:10 · answer #10 · answered by J.R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
supress your feelings and let him make the moves
2007-02-08 14:31:22 · answer #11 · answered by Samy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋