well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and turns away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? she also threw a ball up piece of paper at my face then turned away really fast. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. does she like me?what should i do?
2007-02-08 14:20:21 · 16 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that she does like you but is afraid to admit it. and she does not want you to find out
2007-02-08 14:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by Varsity girl!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most fundamental thing that you can do is talk to her. If you feel like she's ignoring you, try to talk to her after your class is over. Maybe she's behaving this way because she really does like you but is scared away by her own feelings. And finding out that you like her might have evoked a fear of commitment. But I think the fact that she gets shy when you notice her looking at you and even has her own way of flirting with you is a good sign. I think she might actually like you and is afraid to admit it because she's not ready for a relationship. But don't take my word for it. Talk to her and tell her that you're not pressuring her into anything. That the decision is ultimately hers.
Hope it works out!
2007-02-08 23:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by amcstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have said she liked you till you said she threw a paper ball at you. Hmm. Well I have a question how well do u know her is she like a friend because then the paper ball thing might be just teasing but otherwise I'm not sure. I myself would suggest you approach her because if she is acting shy she won't approach you.
2007-02-08 22:28:16 · answer #3 · answered by Bri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that the reason her friends told you no is because They didn't like you and told her that and so she decided to let them tell you that because friends are very influencing that way. this just recently happened to a friend i know... she liked the guy back but her friends didn't like him (or the fact that he took time away from her time with them.. and knew he would take more time if she was to get with him..) so they made her feel guilty and so she said no. normally when girls turn shy they have started to like the guy. and of course because now it's kinda awkward for her since you said you liked her basically and everything. i am pretty sure she likes you though. and you need to TALK TO HER. she doesn't really seem ready for a relationship of any sort though.. especially if she had her friends talk to you for her. she should do that herself. you need to get her alone and talk to her for yourself if you want straight true answers.. and even then she might still try to deny it and hide it. she's just confused. so basically you just have to decide if you want to wait.. or if you want to move on... good luck and best wishes to you! :)
2007-02-08 22:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she isn't sure if she likes you or not, but she really does if she won't really talk to you and is acting like afour year old with a crush. I would walk up to her and say " Hey .........., about my invitation the other day, your friends are saying that you said no, but you didn't say anything to me and my offer still stands, so are you acepting or declining???" If she runs away, then pretend like you never asked you out and then at least you can be friends after the whole thing blows over. If she says no, then say " Thats okay with me, then can we still be friends???" If she says yes, then good, but if she still acts like a four year old after a while, break it off. Good luck, I hope it works out.
2007-02-08 22:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by LALALALALALALA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright..from a girl point of view she has a possibialty of liking you. But I mean if she trys to act all wierd all of a sudden then don't even bother. I mean there is more fish in the sea. But if you really think this is the girl then just ask face to face. What's the worst thing that could happen? really!
2007-02-08 22:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by You know it....Shanon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think You should maybe try to talk to her, but don't make a huge fool of urself. Just smile at her, if she smiles back, then maybe later wave if u see her. Once you've gotten passed the smilining and waving phase, start talking to her, and you know whatever. I actually can't tell you. Its possible she likes you, but maybe her friends don't. But she may like you and just don't want her friends to know so she acts mean to you and neglects you to look cool. But then again, she may hate youre guts... lol sorry but its true. I hope it all works out for you,..... good luck!! ;0)
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2007-02-08 22:46:13 · answer #7 · answered by cAllimac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you but just ashame of saying it in front of her friends. Maybe she's just worrying what other people would think about it. Don't sweat it she still likes you but needs time. Act normal and if that doesn't work then just come up to her when no one's around not even her friends and ask her whatsup , whats going on.
2007-02-08 22:28:23 · answer #8 · answered by a.j. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like she does like you. By throwing the ball of paper, it could be her way of trying to get your attention and "flirt". I would honestly say don't give up on her and try to talk to her. Take things slow and then go from there.
2007-02-08 22:29:46 · answer #9 · answered by gands06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The paper ball thing is confusing, but I hink she may feel akward that you asked her out...or maybe she doesn't feel ready yet. Either way, let her talk to you first.
2007-02-08 22:24:47 · answer #10 · answered by cal_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just playing kiddo games wid the guy who had/has a crush on her...................u gotta be more inclined towards urself rather than thnking bout her. Rember she said a NO if she is really interested now she shud come up say something don't interpret things urself
2007-02-08 22:26:24 · answer #11 · answered by Mellesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋