Me and my boyfriend are in a serious relationship. Should I take it to the next level (if you know what I mean) ?
2007-02-08 14:18:57 · 13 answers · asked by Raven D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only if u ready dont do nothing u aint ready for
2007-02-08 14:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by simply lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends if you are ready to take it to next level......you are the only one who can be sure of that...if you feel you are ready for that and the responsibilities that go with that decision then go ahead.....if you have doubts about it right now, then just give yourself some more time and don't think about it as much for the time being......overall you are the only one that will know and ultimately decide.
2007-02-08 14:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by fox mulder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your question implies that your boyfriend is ready and you're not. Sex is not something that you can take back. Also, it's baggage for every other relationship that you enter. Save it for when you really, really know he's the one -- that's when he puts the ring on your finger!!! Sorry for being so old-fashioned, but you have a choice to make that will truly affect you for the rest of your life. This IS a big deal. Take it slow.
2007-02-08 14:33:02 · answer #3 · answered by Ash 7828 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say only if you are really ready for it. It changes everything. It is so wonderful that you are waiting. The good guys will really respect that and hang in there till it is right for both of you.
2007-02-08 14:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by gands06 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
see next level or not the main thing here is trust and security do u believe in and are u willing to take the risk its india dear its not america.
2007-02-08 14:26:11 · answer #5 · answered by WILTON NORONHA 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only if you feel comfortable. I mean if you feel iffy at all then don't even bother because you won't enjoy it as much as you want it to be. But if you are 100% sure then go for it!
2007-02-08 14:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by You know it....Shanon 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, I dont think thats the kind of question you want complete strangers helping you with. But, if you think its right, do what your heart tells you...
2007-02-08 14:23:12 · answer #7 · answered by azº 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how old you are, if you are in college or older then i would say sure if you are ready, if not then no
2007-02-08 14:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by rabdcow72 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE listen to me- never let anyone, especially a guy lower your standards. If you're having doubts, say no-loud and clear. If he's the right one, he'll wait for you.
2007-02-08 14:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by cal_girl 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
its your decision and what you feel comfortable with. don't let him pressure you if you don't feel like its the right time.
2007-02-08 14:24:28 · answer #10 · answered by farrellangela 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋