FOR MEN OUT THERE: What is so scary about a single mother?

Question

So what I have a beautiful child..........no one will even give me a chance........

Answer 1

I'm the single dad of a disabled child.i know the feeling.It seems that with men it's a thing with having to support another man's child.men for the most part,are territorial.And frankly,most guys are quite immature about this unless they are single dads who have felt the pain of being dumped because the kid comes first.I run into women all the time who don't want to date me because of my child.Hold your head up,keep looking.that right guy who will accept you as a single mom will come someday!

Answer 2

Single mothers just scare off those guys who are afraid to be real men and face the fact that you're not their sole interest in their life. In fact the man should expect to be a distant third at least. That child will always come first and should.

I'm assuming you're looking for a romantic relationship with potential for more someday. I'm assuming they either aren't prepared for that or they don't want to face that potential.

Me personally, I have preferred the single moms I've dated over the non-moms. I've found they're a lot more fun and open to new things. Like they work twice as hard as any other girl out there so when they can get out they like to have fun. Plus it's always nice when the mom feels comfortable enough to introduce you to their child. I mean that's a feeling that they really care. I was quite honored when that threshold was crossed.

If a man is afraid of you there's something wrong, you should be giving me a call. :-p

Good luck.

Answer 3

Don't take it so personally. It's probably not you or the child, it's the fact that there's undoubtedly baggage, i.e. the child's father. As a rule, it seems that an ex- spouse/egg donor/sperm donor is a nuisance at best, and it can put a strain on an otherwise perfect relationship with a single parent. This is why you have to be extra patient and selective. Whoever you take a deep interest in needs to have the wisdom and emotional and mental fortitude to take on this challenge. Otherwise you'll be headed for another trainwreck. You and your child don't need that. Good Luck!

Answer 4

Me personally, nothing at all. So what if a woman is a single mother, it doesn't matter or atleast it shouldn't. The only thing about it tho is the guy needs to understand that you come as a package deal and if he can't accept that then you don't need him anyway.
One last thing, us guys with kids have the same problem also.

Answer 5

To me personally, nothing is scary about a single Mother. My Sweet Lady is a single Mother.

Perhaps you've got a chip on your shoulder about another issue!

Answer 6

If it doesn't work out, it's much harder to break up with a single mother. You feel bad that the kid has to go through all of this. Believe it or not, guys do have a soft spot for kids and I know guys that won't break up with someone just because there kids have been through so much already. Who wants to get stuck like that?

Answer 7

What is scarey? Your ex and your child. It takes someone special to find that as an attractive package. Hang in there - focus on your child - the right one will come along when you least expect it.

Answer 8

Hello there, if you have a beautiful child, then you there's no problem with him.

Bye bye
Good luck

Answer 9

I dont think there is anything wrong with a single mother. If you lived near me and we had chemistry, i would date you. I was serious, why did i get two thumbs down? the guy above me is a total a**hole.

Answer 10

hell ill give ya a chance......im a single dad know the feeling

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