I'm pretty shy and I can never start a good conversation with anyone without making a fool of myself. So,I know it's a weird question, but how do you start a really on going, deep conversation with someone?
Thanks =)
2007-02-08 13:53:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Languages
The secret of being a good conversationalist is to be a good listener and to know that what people like talking about most is themselves. You could start by making a general comment about something you've noticed, the weather, the latest news item and then ask them what they think, how they are affected, etc. Different people develop their own techniques in keeping with their particular personalities. This is the link to a short story written about someone who at first sight appeared very dull, but who learned the secret of doing just that! http://maugham.classicauthors.net/Jane/
2007-02-09 02:21:30 · answer #1 · answered by Doethineb 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me...do u know how much a polar bear weights??? Pretty enough to break the ice!!! =P....XDDD
2007-02-08 21:58:45 · answer #2 · answered by placer y goce 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask them if they know where the closest Starbucks is. It works everytime.
2007-02-08 21:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well just try to stay cool and you'll be right on track before you know it.
2007-02-08 22:06:13 · answer #4 · answered by maggotier 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well: the basic thing you can just say"Hello and in English Grammer" where any person would understand clearly ok ?
2007-02-08 22:04:38 · answer #5 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you make a comment on something that they are doing. laugh, be sweet in other words make them want to talk to you.
2007-02-08 21:57:07 · answer #6 · answered by summer girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋