So I really like this boy but he is a liar and I never had a guy really like me and I like the attention he gives me. I know I can't trust him and I don't want him to be my boyfriend but is it okay if I mess around with him and stuff?
2007-02-08 13:51:30 · 12 answers · asked by Paris M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's not really going to get you any where
2007-02-08 13:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just said you can't trust him and he's a liar. Why would you want to mess around with him? I personally think it's a bad idea. Why do you want that kind of attention from someone like that? Find someone that will treat you good, not lie to you and give you the right kind of attention.
2007-02-08 13:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by gands06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know he is a liar? did you catch him in a lie before or is it hearsay from friends? with these kind of things who wants to mess around with someone that likes them and the attention yet has never had anyone give them attention like that before, because later on you might regret it because someone may observe that and think that you are dating him and the other guy will probably not talk to you because youre considered as taken.
2007-02-08 13:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by jinxygrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Messing around with him will eventually mess your head around too. So if you know he is a bad person, then try to stay away from him and don't talk to him or interact with him (although it may seem hard). Although messing around IS fun sometimes, what good will it do you? At the end, you still won't be able to go out with him or be anything more than friends. You might as well "quit" him cold turkey! Good luck, girl.
2007-02-08 13:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um that is bad attention Hun you don't trust him but wanna mess around? He's a liar to that is no good their are plenty of good boys out there wait for one of them.
2007-02-08 13:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by sunrisevirgo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mess around with him then you are being as dishonest and deceptive as he is. You don't want a guy that cannot tell the truth. Be his friend, but I don't suggest getting deeply involved with him.
I know it's your first boyfriend and you like the attention, but being with someone who cannot be truthful is not advisable. Open your mind and your availability and a person who is so wonderful will come your way
2007-02-08 13:57:08 · answer #6 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you've got your priorities straight. So you're willing to be a tool for this guy? Is that what your life is about? What about you? What defines you? Or are you just something for boys to mess around with? I'm serious and I hope you're taking this answer seriously. You'd better think, girl!!! THINK!!!
2007-02-08 13:56:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
R-E-S-P-E-C-T yourself! Say no, you're worth more than that!
Just give yourself to time to grow out of this ackward stage. You don't NEED to be messing around with anyone that you don't like, especially if you don't want to have a bad reputation. Leave him alone, and just be patient. It will happen for you, but usually only when you aren't looking for it. Good luck
2007-02-08 13:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by lissa2882 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm....more than likely you'll just get burned in the end. Either he'll figure out you didn't like him and be resentful, or you'll just end up getting more and more annoyed because you're not really into him. Then you have to figure out how to get rid of him. So I suggest just leaving him alone. Maybe friends, but make sure he understand that's where it stands.
2007-02-08 13:58:09 · answer #9 · answered by gracefulelephant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just messing around with him will most likely leave you feeling empty. i would say no, but if you already mess around with guys with no attachment and dont mind the way it feels i would say go for it.
2007-02-08 13:57:27 · answer #10 · answered by rebekah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋