Ok does anyone think that my boyfriend should be on person.com rating girls in front of me?? At first it didnt bother me but then when i seen him give some girls 10s,9s, & 8s high numbers (in front of me) that bother me. Now we both agree to talk to people we dont know and are never going to see but i now dont like the fact he grades people. Does anyone think that right??
2007-02-08 13:45:41 · 12 answers · asked by sweetgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have opened the door for trouble you should have never agreed if you thought this would be a problem.I personally would not care but, if it bothered me i would let him know. But first do the same thing he is doing and she how he reacts. then he may want you to stop and so will he this way you know hw cares and you don't look to emotional.
2007-02-08 13:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not right that you are both in a relationship and are talking to other people. Even on the internet it can lead to something serious.
You see people need formal boundries to make it. Your relationship must be insulated. But rating girls is nothing big. If you do not want him doing that use your womanly wiles. Suprise him!!!
2007-02-08 21:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by Harry R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not right. I'd tell him how you feel. i'd never do that to my Girlfriend, because I know how uncomftorable I'd feel If my Girl did that to me. He's checking out other girls, just over the internet. You have to say "This isn't right. I feel Like I'm just a girl thats placed on the side of your life." If he continues, i'd either start checking out guys, or find someone more secure that won't make you feel left out.
good luck, hope this helped!
Nick
2007-02-08 21:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you own him? Are you engaged to him? Are you married to him? I would say at best you are seeing him on a fairly regular basis but no real committment has been made (If it were you'd be engaged). Since there is no real committment there is no reason for you to be bothered.
2007-02-08 21:50:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think that is right. Maybe you should talk to him and let him know that you don't like that he is going on there and rating girls. Talking to them is one thing but rating them like that is another!
2007-02-08 22:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by Kelli J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you get into a relationship, that doesn't mean that you can just turn off your instincts. people will notice those they think are attractive. it shouldn't bother you if he does this in private, but i can understand why it bothers you that he does it in front of you. just tell him not to do it around you!
2007-02-08 21:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by lunesca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all grading people at all is wrong. juding people by their looks is mean. anyways if it bothers you you should definately talk to him about it. otherwise it will go on and you'll still feel uneasy about it.
2007-02-08 21:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by rebekah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooooo, he is really pushing the limits of your relationship. I think he is wrong and you are perfectly within your rights to call him on it. At best he is being very rude to you.
2007-02-08 22:01:04 · answer #8 · answered by kim s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have never agreed to this. Tell him to do this on his own time if he must do it. Best if he stop all together.
2007-02-08 22:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is right! because if my boyfriend do things like that, i will got very mad
2007-02-08 21:50:01 · answer #10 · answered by jojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋