3 weeks ago my ex-bf called me & asked me to go see a movie with him. The weird thing is that HE was the one who dumped me, we only dated for one month AND this call came after one year. I said yes, he picked me up, then as soon as the movie was done he drove me home. It felt kinda rushed, on the drive home when I asked him why he wanted to see he said, "I wanna see you every once in awhile". We never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. During this year although he never asked me to see him, he did talk to him on msn. Is he stringing me along & what does he want? He's 26 while I'm 21.Some say he wants sex, but he knows my beliefs and he can get anywhere since a lot of girls put out. He could still have feelings for me but why won't he just ASK ME OUT again? Not ask me to “hangout” but I mean why won't he ask me to be his gf again, to really date again? I mean he's 26, he's graduating from grad school, gonna get his MBA degree & he's strating a job in June. It seems like he wants to settle down but why won't he just ask me out? What the hell is his deal?
2007-02-08 13:44:30 · 11 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He feels in his heart that you are a good person to be accociated with, possibly what turns him off is that you will not have sex until marriage and he is torn inside, but it seems that he cares but you will have to make this choice for yourself. Take care Heather
2007-02-08 13:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is hung up on the idea that you would not have sex with him and he is trying his luck, he sees this as a rejection and thinks that by asking you out again and you are still interested then ther is a chance that you will give into your beleifs and have sex with him. the best thing you can do is tell this jerk where to go and find someone who has the same feelings about sex as you and this will form the basis of a better relationship and not just a sexual one.
2007-02-08 21:54:03 · answer #2 · answered by unarmedsnail2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"He's just not that into you", if he really wanted to be with you, he would be, sorry! I was messed around by my ex and a friend bought me the "he's just not that into you" book, it is a little corny, but it does get you realising that he doesn't want to be with you or he would be. It comes from both a males and females point of view, also.
2007-02-08 21:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by sunnygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hottie, Are you hooked on him? Seem to me a good convo is needed between two people. With that said simply move on, A year-come on who fooling who?
2007-02-08 21:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by animatelifeforce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is making his girlfriend jealous by having someone on the side or he is lonely and can't find any one to see .
2007-02-08 21:48:13 · answer #5 · answered by chotpeper 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry find a new guy hes playing u like sega
2007-02-08 21:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by localnark 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry,,i tried to figure him out,but his actions make absolutely no sense ????? i think it best to just stay away and not accept his invites anymore !!!! good luck.
2007-02-08 21:50:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Every once in awile" Sounds like he's just messing with you....PS it's really cool that you're waiting, guys really respect that.
2007-02-08 21:48:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should probaby ask him..hah
2007-02-08 21:48:33 · answer #9 · answered by . 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is YOUR deal? Isn't this your life? Why are you letting an EX, who dumped you control you? WTF?
2007-02-08 21:49:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋