Help, my life sucks!?
I wish I could run away, but I don't have the gutts.. I have actually tryed to kill my self. It's sad. I write emo poems everynight it helps a bit. My mom will say something rude i'll say something rude back I get in ****. If my mom tells me to do the laungry I was Whatever. She says " Tell me whatever again i'll slap you so hard." and just the other day she said if you tell you dad I got a speeding ticket I slap you so hard. And one day my dad kicked me. Please help what should I do?? My mother and I get a long sometimes but most the time she just a *****. Oone time she siad if I opened my mouth again she push me off the chair knowing I would fall down the stairs. And my friends knows she a *****, they tell me all the time to run away. Please just tell me what you think is best thanks.
2007-02-08 13:25:21 · 3 answers · asked by Rain-- 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm sorry you're having problems with your parents. If possible, talk to your school counselor about it. They can be of more help than you realize. Or possibly talk to another relative that may be able to help you, such as a grandparent or aunt.
In the meantime, I guess the only thing you can do is try hard to not make your parent's mad at you. It's not fair, but at least it may keep them from physically harming you. Try to lay low and not egg them into getting mad at you. When they ask you to do laundry, just smile and say sure! That way you're not giving them any ammunition to use against you. If you smother them with niceness, hopefully they'll treat you the same!
Good Luck!
2007-02-08 18:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by Ruby V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not run away I did when I was between ages 13 to 17 and all that did is make my life harder in the long run. You can't run from your probs. You should talk to somebody but make sure you can trust them and dont just talk to somebody just to talk about it. Find somebody that can make things better by the right actions. You dont want to end up in SRS custody. I was for years. Grouphomes, Rehabs and never an addict, Juvi 16 time. Probation for 3 years house arrest. All that made my life really hard. I went to juvi 16 time for running away. I was also held in this house by this guy for 5 days I got out and 1 month later he went to jail because he had a dead girl locked in his room and that is not something you want to do. trust me you are safer in your home than you are on outs. It dont matter if you are with your friends stuff can happen. It is hard now but things will get better when you get older. You might have the right to choose to live on your own if you are 16 or older. But dont run away please. That was the worst thing I did in my life.
2007-02-09 08:34:13 · answer #2 · answered by eoeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you will be old enough to get out of there soon. In the meantime try to avoid altercations with them. Stay more to yourself but do your chores and then go to your room. You need that lone time but don't do anything harmful to yourself. Time will get you through this. GOOD LUCK.
2007-02-12 20:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by andyt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋