ı had a bf. we broke up last month because none of my girl and his boy friends think we are suitable.and ı liked him very much but ı don't want to go out with him because his appereance is not good and he wears very bad thinks. when some of my friend saw us out they asked me ''how can you date a person like him??'' while we were alone we spent good times.also he is 2 years yonger from me. ı know he still loves me and ı like him still. what should i going to do? should i date him again??
2007-02-08 13:19:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you like him. don't listen to what you friends say
2007-02-08 13:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you really like him, you owe it to yourself to give it a try. If you don't, you will always wonder "what if". Why do you care what your friends think of him or what his friends think of you? It's you and him, not you him and your friends. It's your life and as long as he treats you good,That's all that should matter. His apperance can't be that bad if it attracted you in the first place. Everyone is different. Don't try to change someone to fit your life or apperance. Everyone is unique. Go with it. Hope this helps. Good Luck.
2007-02-08 21:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by gands06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a nice guy and u should give him a chance. If u think u should go out with him again then dont listen to ur friends. They obveuosly dont care about you if u like this guy and they dont support it. maybe u should get some new friends that really care about how u feel.
Good luck. I know u will make the right choice
2007-02-08 21:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, They arn't your true friends and are very immature if they judge someone. I am not saying you are because you are the one who was with him and STILL like him. That's GREAT! I think you should ignore all the negative things people say about him and you guys and give it a try because if you don't, you will always wonder what could have happened. EVERYONE has things we don't like about people. Sometimes opposites attract. Follow your heart and not what other people think. Good luck!
2007-02-08 21:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts, except come to the realisation that good girls go for bad boys. If you are worried about his appearance ask him if he would change it a bit. If your friends see something you don't see, because love is sometimes blind, sit back and think about whats most important and consider, what you want.
Take care Heather
2007-02-08 21:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, and he loves you, forget what everyone else thinks. When you're heartbroken and alone, and they all have significant others, do you think they're going to care about your feelings? No. Here's a life lesson for you: Don't worry what others think, you do what makes you happy.
2007-02-08 21:23:51 · answer #6 · answered by LTP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should't date anyone until you learn how to spell or at leat use spell checker. None of my girl(s) or boy friends. And what should I do? loose the word "going"
2007-02-08 21:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by MrsMagee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes when it comes to feelings, use yours,not your friends,, if you like him that's allot,if he loves you that's allot more,,, screw your friends,,you came into this world alone and you leave it alone,,everything you do between, is totally your choice,,, go out with him again never make yourself say what if... find out on your own,, good luck..............
2007-02-08 21:32:09 · answer #8 · answered by David M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not everything u do has to be aproved by ur friends. if u like this guy, then take advantage of that and ask him out, b with him!!!
2007-02-08 21:23:45 · answer #9 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like him go for it, screw your "friends".
2007-02-08 21:24:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋