To the religious: Why is MY abortion considered your business?

Question

heavens forbid i get pregnant and the doctor says that there is over 98 percent chance that my baby and me will DIE due to health complications,
and my doc gives me an option for abortion...........why would it be your business?
who are YOU to judge me and my life and look through my medical records and history? would you want ME or any other stranger to look through YOUR medical records and dictate what you should or shouldnt in times of crisis?
don't you think i as a woman am capable enough to make my own decisions regarding this matter?
abortion is a medical issue between ME and my doctor... who are you to take away my choice? who are you to look through my medical records?

Answer 1

You should re-phrase your question. Not all religious people behave this way. In Judaism, an abortion is near required when the mother's life is in danger. And it IS nobody else's business. Keep reminding people of that.

Answer 2

If it is an American type answer you are looking for - then it is about money, not religion. As in federal tax money - and when it's federal - then those opposed want the money cut off, while those that agree with abortion want the money to flow. This is federal government money - that would be used in hospitals kept funded by federal money. Those private hospitals are not affected by federal money, nor are the many that travel outside the USA to countries for their abortions.
Separating religious passion from money to save lives has always the problem, in most of the stories I have seen. Look at who use each hospital, and the abortions there, money dictates hospital policy to offer this procedure. This is also a "have" and "have not" issue, as many can not travel to other countries due to their lifestyle, being poorer than those that can. So these women are in a difficult situation, with few caring for them.

As I often state - abortion is not an issue I have any say in.
I really do not care about my tax money used in federal medicine care either - what is that to me, use it to save lives is fine with me. I use federal money for my asthma, today, women need more than I do.

All I really want - is to NEVER hear about the back alley midnight abortions where the woman dies, and other horror facts from the 50/60's (anyone remember the horror facts/stories?) PLEASE do not repeat this historical time period!!

Answer 3

Because YOU are killing a LIFE. Doctors are quite frequently WRONG, so why would you kill your baby in a selfish attempt to save your own hide? How motherly of you! Would you jump out of the way of a speeding bus to save yourself and leave your kid to get run over?

Medical records are supposed to be private s hopefully nobody. We are Christians to judge good and evil because God has shared the truth with us.

If preventing me from taking an innocent baby's life, sure! How about if i was mentally unstable and had custody of my kids? We hear about these cases all the time, they end up drowning their kids in bathtubs.

So people are capable of deciding if they will murder or not, and that should be ok?

Abortion is the termination of life. It is NOT a matter of a relationship between the mother and doctor. It is more of a relationship between the baby and a surgical blade. Does the baby get a say? How about the Father? Do realize that in many cases women dont meet with the person performing the abortion.

Just because women are capable of murder and doctors and willing and its legal, doesnt make it right. God has the final say and he has already told us that the unborn have rights and should not be murdered.

Answer 4

The age previous question is in the experience that your have been on the shore of the river and you observed your loved ones drowning who do you save. the respond is your better half. you are able to continually have extra infants,. i do no longer think abortion could be unlawful. there are various reasons scientific and legal to terminate a being pregnant. What people who oppose abortion are combating against is utilising it for start administration. Irresponsible and entertainment intercourse are subject concerns that degrade the customary of our society. How we cope with the elderly and unborn reflects on the values of civilization. China is looking out that couples aborting women individuals in choose of conceiving a male baby has left a area of interest interior the subsequent era. There a fewer women individuals available for marriage to all those adult males. as long as an abortion is a scientific situation maximum individuals have not got a situation. scientific archives are no longer open for me to look at besides, its the regulation. faith isn't the situation,civilization is.

Answer 5

It's all about you isn't it?

Fact is nearly all abortions are just a cop out way to get rid of the baby and have irresponsible sex. Fact is the baby has rights and just as there are laws concerning infanticide there need to be laws against such abortions. It is reproductive bulimia and is a deep disgrace for any nation to allow it.

If any people are innocent it is the unborn. Sex is primarily for making babies not primarily for recreation and marriage is for commitment mainly to benefit the children produced. How many babies have been slaughtered in order to have irresponsible sex? Many many millions. Do the math and know this is the greatest holocaust in human history happening around us out of sight and mind Monday through Friday, week in and week out.

How conveniently science is ignored when it doesn't support the desired conclusion. Science testifies to the individuality of the human being not yet born in every way conceivable. And so the issues of evolution and abortion show the lack of honesty prevalent among the a-theists.

Answer 6

"heavens forbid i get pregnant and the doctor says that there is over 98 percent chance that my baby and me will DIE due to health complications,"

Do you know how RARE that is? Experts say such a thing, with today's medical technology, is just about non-existent. It's only an excuse from the Pro-Abortion groups.

Your abortion is my concern because I choose to speak up for those who can't speak for themselves, like your baby.

Answer 7

Im sorry that you are bothered by people over this amtter. I am religious myself. A Christian, like as in i believe that Jesus is the only way to heaven, and i follow his teachings. not like i jsut go to church occasionally. I personally believe ti si your right to decide whether or nto you have an abortion. I have no right to judge against you. I support you in whatever decision you make because you know teh situation better than i. good luck to you, i hope and pray that it all turns out well for you, not matter which path you take.

Answer 8

My daughter was going to give birth at a Catholic hospital. They told her if it came between the life of the baby and her life, they would save the life of the baby. Fortunately she chose a different kind of hospital and that decision never had to be made. I believe God wants the living to continue to live. At least I did. I know if you had an abortion under those circumstances, God would not consider it sin.

Answer 9

I am no one in particular. And you are right. We each should have and act according to our consciences in peace.
What many religious and also non religious deplore is the wanton carelessness. Do you know what happens to aborted fetuses? They are washed down the toilet. Sometimes the fetuses are still alive and are thrown out like so much garbage.
Check that fact out with your doctor!

Answer 10

You're right, its not their business. And I don't think they're interested either.

Next time you see a mob destroying an abortion clinic, go up to them and say this too. Most of these people don't know what they're doing.