How should I play this?

Question

Well, I'm not heart broken anymore, from the secretly married man,that's been telling me I was his one and only for about a year and half. I've been having alot of casual sex latly. Its great.!! I just had this sexual epoide last night, that turned into a heart fulfield moment. This guy that's been knowing me since I was 16 years old. Wants to be my man. I don't want to say yes, because I don't want to be in another bad relationship. But he is doing every thing I want and more when it comes to sex. I just bought him home last night for the first time. So I don't know how he works in a relationships. I guess my question is how should I play this?

But he did tell tell me he isnt in a relationship now because he caught his gf suckin' **** in their home.!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

I say play it by ear, no pressure, be patient, and just let his actions speak for themselves.
By the way, the casual sex thing is great.