ok well my friend (girl) is really really shy and she liked this guy (like adored him) and he asked her out and so they have been going out for like a month. she always talks about him to me and at this one dance she actually kissed him (i was amazed she did) but at school we (me and my other bff) have to make them walk together to their next class and they walk super far apart and always talk 2 someone else instead of their bf or gf. i mean if he says hi to her she wont even look at him to say hi back. i mean they r both super shy but what can i do 2 get them closer?? thanks 4 helping with my friend!
2007-02-08 12:56:46 · 11 answers · asked by .. .. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think it's something that can or should be forced. They've only been going out for a short time so they probably still feel a little awkward and self conscious around one another and being naturally shy people would make this a whole lot worse. My advice would be to just encourage her to talk to him and spend as much time as she is comfortable with, with him, but don't force the issue - she'll just end up feeling like you guys are trying to boss her around which she won't appreciate (even though your intentions are good).
Give it time and I'm sure you'll see that as the two of them get to know one another, they'll be more comfortable in one another's company.
Also, there is nothing wrong with boyfriends and girlfriends having separate groups of friends and talking to other people. There's no need to change just because you've got a bf/gf.
2007-02-08 13:07:34 · answer #1 · answered by Nat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of their business....its hard and it will bug the hell out of u but really..dont bug in
unless she is screaming for help... talk to the guy first to get a clear picture, maybe he said something that made it weird (usually its the guy...) but if its something like: oh we kissed and we didnt talk after that, then just tell/make him talk to her, the last thing u want to do is play broken telephone between those two
2007-02-08 21:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by shanakon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well iwould really say that to let them handle this by themsleves but if u really want to help ur friend then y dont u invite them to the movies or make them get each other valentine gifts-- to show that they really luv each ohter for real
good luck
2007-02-08 21:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by SparklinSerena♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt worry about that, but your a really good friend if you do. you could try setting them up. like ask your friend to lunch and invite her boyfriend over then when they both arrive you leave them alone, they will have no choice but ot talk.
2007-02-08 21:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by Terry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take times. Things will develope later!
2007-02-08 21:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush them. Things happen at their own pace. Faster than comfortable will actually hurt them.
2007-02-08 21:00:11 · answer #6 · answered by Peggy Pirate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are both shy there is really nothin to do...some people dont like showing affectionaroun all the people they see everyday
2007-02-08 21:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by GM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get them to spend sometime alone getting to know each other.
maybe they are shy with each other because of other people are around.
2007-02-08 21:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them handle that.....you have business
2007-02-08 20:58:58 · answer #9 · answered by keyshalaneamartin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they will get use to it
2007-02-08 21:00:46 · answer #10 · answered by k-joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋