I'm getting married in September and my fiance and I are each only having three atendents, which is how we want it, but the problem is, I have four brothers, none of whom are gromesman and want them to be part of the wedding, but not ushers, either? We're not having a traditional wedding, so any creativity would be appreciated.Thanks
2007-02-08 12:55:27 · 6 answers · asked by barnaclesally 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Your brothers should respect your fiance's decision on the attendants. Ushers would be a great idea if you and your fiance agree. However, your brothers should be supportive and happy for you on your special day whether they are an active part or not. The fact that they love their sister and are there really is what matters. There are only so many roles in a wedding ... and you cannot please everyone. This is your moment to shine ... Enjoy ... and the best to you!
2007-02-08 13:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by daffodil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the ages of your brothers however, I have 3 brothers
1 read in my ceremony 1 walked my mother down the aisle before the actual ceremony 1 announced our arrival at the reception and introduced us.I have no sisters and didn't want my brothers to feel left out. Maybe even give a toast to you during the reception???I hope you get some help with these suggestions
2007-02-08 21:02:16 · answer #2 · answered by Dee U 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have each one do a reading, if any can sing than sing, they can say a poem write a poem, do the candle "handling" pass out the candles and start lighting them.
Congrads
2007-02-08 22:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them as the witness of the wedding
2007-02-08 21:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by Sparkling pearl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is hard to say...not knowing details but...you could maybe give them special jobs like, setting things up or something. IDK? Usher would have been my first suggestion. Maybe they could show your guests to their seats or take coats.
Good Luck!
2007-02-08 21:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by KJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change it than
2007-02-08 20:58:40 · answer #6 · answered by k-joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋