I'm in love with one of my good friends. I recently told him how i "used" to feel(I was lying, saying that I used to like him but not anymore, which was a lie). So we didnt speak for about a week, and then he out of the blue calls me and we met up at a party. At the party, he was drunk and he would not stop touching me and talking to me, but I didnt really connect the dots(yes, i know, very stupid). So the next day he was very cold to me, and now we havent spoken for awhile...what is going on with him??? What should i do???
2007-02-08 12:50:55 · 8 answers · asked by Natalie G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1st he was drunk and the Ole saying is a drunk dont lie when hes drunk.. now that he is sober he's to scared to admit to you that he likes you hes scared you will reject.. so u r not talking call his bluff.. call him and have him meet you somewhere and tell him the truth about how you really feel.. i mean what do you have to loose? you aren't talking now.. just call him.. hes waiting for you to make the 1st move... good luck
2007-02-08 12:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by idrlh2o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably knows you like him or he wouldn't have gone for it so intensely at the party. Also if you are playing a little hard to get, that might be attractive. If he truly is a good friend, some dialog would be good. Try a simple,"Hey, how are you? Is something wrong?" I understand concealing your feelings, but maybe sharing them a little will be better for your peace of mind.
2007-02-08 20:59:45 · answer #2 · answered by thunderbleu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be straight forward and honest, yall probably know each other to well for games. sounds like he is kinda digging on you too, probably a little hard to adjust, could be why he acting weird. longtime friends can make good lovers, but if it don't work out then it might ruin a chance of any type of friendship. i would say at first be subtle with it, hell i just thought about how i suck in relationships and maybe shouldn't be telling you anything. just be honest, and feel it out at first, take it slow.
2007-02-08 20:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by glass. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know . I know how you feel. Guys are kind of "Unknown"
you know, no one knows (maybe except guys)for sure what their thinking. That happens to me, too. Sometimes I think they don't like me or my looks any more. Like They hang up the phone right after the say bye, even though were just friends, like because
I or we were kind of talking sexy. I know how you feel. And I agree with you. Just pretend your upset or happy, which ever.
If your like upset, you might want to talk to him, or he'll come.
If your like happy, be active, play or jump around and talk to him.
2007-02-08 21:10:13 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him of your real feelings towards him. You don't want to be taken advantage of and you want to be respected, so the touching is inappropiate so respect yourself because nobody else will and let him know you want to be respected. Take care Heather
2007-02-08 20:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kind of confusing? It is up to you to clarify things. You should talk to your friend and be absolutely upfront about your feelings. Let him know that you like him and that you also value his friendship.
2007-02-08 21:04:47 · answer #6 · answered by linatik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're a man and your talking about a man then...it would be hard for me to help......men and women are different in so many ways.....but if he actin like that then i think it's time to let that go and move on cause no one wants to be treated like crap!!!!wrap that relationship up fast!!!
2007-02-08 20:55:22 · answer #7 · answered by keyshalaneamartin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it probrably wierded him out or he doesnt think of you like that
2007-02-08 20:54:35 · answer #8 · answered by aznboi2go 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋