I was upset and broke up wih him. He thought it was a good idea. Now he dosn't love me anymore. But my love for him won't go away. How can I get over him? Every guy I think might be a potential boyfriend I see why it won't work out and how I still want to be with my ex. He was always really nice and sweet to me and was very special and I wasn't having a good day and I just ended it. Now I feel like such an idiot but he e-mailed me saying he no longer loves me. It's been about a month. I just need some help. How can I move on?
2007-02-08 12:37:34 · 10 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
....well u can just forget about him. try your best to move on and get over him, from what it sounds like, he didnt really care about u, or hes just still getting over the realtionship
2007-02-08 12:42:16 · answer #1 · answered by April 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard, I've been there. You want to analyze the relationship. Is there anything you learned about yourself while you were with him? Is there anything you learned about being in a relationship? If the answer is no, then look into yourself and find out how you can advance as a person before you start to see if there is any potential in anybody else.
If the answer was yes, then know it wasn't a waste. It seems as if he wanted to break up as well but maybe prolonged the process. Either way this is about you. It's only been a month and depending on how long you two were together it will take a while to move on completely. My advice is to take some time for yourself. Love hurts and love heals. You can work on you so that the next time you are having a bad day you will know how to express yourself better and that may help your boyfriend know better how to respond to what you are going through. I will wrap up by saying, as humans when our emotions are running high we say a lot that we don't mean. You may find in the long run that it may have been coming anyway.
2007-02-08 20:58:27 · answer #2 · answered by nobodybetta_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved him would you have broken up with him over a bad day???? There is an underlying reason you let him go. Think about how you really feel and give it some time. Talk to him about it if you really feel the same way once you have had time to think about it. Good luck!!!
2007-02-08 20:46:59 · answer #3 · answered by pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer above or e-mail him & tell him.You said he was always nice & sweet.He may have said he doesnt love you because he was hurt & Im thinking that he said that because he figures if you were to break his heart like you did then he doesnt love you.But,,,I think you feel as if you made a mistake.Tell him the truth,,that you had a bad day & feel like you acted out & it was a mistake.Make his day for Valentines because I think he really does still like you too.
2007-02-08 20:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many times has this happened before ? If this was the only time you broke up and things were great between you before this,i would tell him or send him this web page so he sees how you feel... maybe it is not to late! Maybe he just sent you the email to hurt you because he is so hurt by you dumping him.. You never know unlkess you try!!
2007-02-08 20:42:45 · answer #5 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt with a lot of guys and go out places with ur friends..enjoy being single..the rite guy will come along..i guess ur ex jus isnt the one..try not to think about him and try to make some new guy friends..then maybe later on ull become closer to one of them and begin to feel attracted to one of them...the best relationships start with good friendships..
2007-02-08 20:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by mariah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give it time.
You might always have a special place in your heart for him but, it is time to move on.
Good luck
2007-02-08 20:42:00 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your fault you broke up.. get over it.. and move on by forgetting...
2007-02-08 20:41:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait awhile before you date again,until your over this one, go have fun with friends!
2007-02-08 20:40:51 · answer #9 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it time.
2007-02-08 20:41:31 · answer #10 · answered by karry l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋