the thing is that i dont know if my ex is going to want to answer me or deal with me. what do i do i dont want to hurt my boyfriend but i think some one is going to end up hurt.
2007-02-08 12:23:45 · 15 answers · asked by jamie_murillo2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-02-08 12:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First rule in breaking up, make sure you are over the person completely,relationship wise and sexually. If you feel that when you see this person you may not be able to control yourself, then my advise to you is don't start another relationship with someone else, because they will be the one's that get hurt. Your ex is just like any other, they don't want you to they see you with someone else. He felt like he could pull you back in to make a point and if was just sexual then he did, If he is not calling you and wanting to get back with you, then girlfriend you made the mistake that most females make with their ex's. If you believe in your heart that he wants you back or you want to be with him,establish that fact between the two of you first. Then let the other person go, without having to hurt them by him finding out about what you did .But you know your ex better than I do,if you had no contact afterwards,then I suggest you move on and make a relationship with your new boyfriend,we all get weak and people that know us know how to work on that weakness. I don't know how you feel about the other guy,but if your not over your ex, which I assume your not otherwise you wouldn't have slept with him.I suggest that you give yourself some space and time to figure out what you want to do,otherwise you'll run the risk of the guy finding out. And if you decide to stay with the other guy then you need to start an honest relationship with him, because people have a way of finding out things that you kept from them and it will only hurt the both of you.Good luck and be strong
2007-02-08 12:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you jumped from your ex to your current boyfriend much to fast and you were not really over your ex. Now all I can see is hurt for all of you.. Maybe take some time off and try to think of what you are doing and what you really want. Good Luck
2007-02-08 12:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by Mari-Mari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all u r wrong as hell 4 what u did. I don't understand why us females think that is alright to cheat on a guy but it is wrong 4 a guy to cheat on us? Now if he would've cheated on u then u would be somewhere crying ur damn eyes out. But instead u went and cheated on him with ur lame a$$ ex. Hello, isn't he ur ex for a reason? Stop playing with peoples emotions b4 u get hurt.
2007-02-08 12:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by 2good4hem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you don't deserve either guy at all.
How would you feel if someone cheated on you?
First off, figure out who it is you want, and then if it's your ex break up with your current bf, and if it's your current bf forget about your ex.
Keep in mind, you and your ex broke up for a reason, so maybe it's best you guys don't get back together.
2007-02-08 12:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by Akarui 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they will probably Both get hurt. It is because you are a terrible,selfish, self centered person, and for lack of a better word, a sl*t. You don't deserve a good guy to be with as you would only cheat on him as soon as the next guy that came along looked at you twice.
2007-02-08 12:33:57 · answer #6 · answered by rmxer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. well think first, is ur ex really wanting u back or was just using you for sex. also this current bf, is he sweet/caring or does he just seem like another guy using you for sex. in the end i wudnt rule out leaving both of them as a potential option.
2007-02-08 12:29:08 · answer #7 · answered by borred223 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not over your ex. If your new guy knows about your ex it'd be easier to tell him first, and then see how well that goes before even mentioning it to your ex.
2007-02-08 12:27:18 · answer #8 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happen to me before. I would take a vacation for a week or two by your self or if you cant get away tell them both you need time off for a little while so you can figure out what is going on. You are so confused!!! Please take some time for your self. Good Luck
2007-02-08 12:37:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like people have already been hurt. It might be best for you to spend some time alone, thinking about what you're really looking for in a partner.
2007-02-08 12:28:54 · answer #10 · answered by JennyJen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋