how do i know i love him?

Question

i love my boyfriend and we even talk about marriage but do i really love him? does he really love me? how do i know for sure?

Answer 1

ok this is easy. To be honest love isnt a feeling, and i know it sounds stupid but its true, love is the decision of being together for ever, because if it were a feeling then damn we fall in love every month dont we lol. But yeah can u imagine waking up every morning next to him? Are u willing to change your life style and hopes for him, and is willing to do the same? Can you imagine sharing your day with the same man, in the same house, every day? If you think u pass all these then i think u should relaly start talking about marriage

Answer 2

Just because y'all talk about marriage doesn't necessary answer the question that he want to do that. How can you tell if he makes you smile and feel so real just by being with him or talking on the phone an if he feels the same way about you. Then it's could be real he's telling you that he loves you an I no you telling him you love so I no for a fact that y'all are in love. I think you have nothing to worry about. I think the perfect match has been created. :)

Answer 3

Depends... how long have you two been together? If it's not over a year then my guess is you're still wrapped up in the infatuation phase of the relationship - you feel great passion and lust towards your partner and your thoughts and perspectives are clouded by this. It's easy to get swept away in these strong feelings.
To quote "Wedding Crashers" - True love is your soul's recognition of its counterpoint in another.
In my opinion, true love comes later, after you've been together for longer, perhaps even lived together, when you get to know them inside and out, the good and the bad. It's only when you know this about them - especially the bad and annoying stuff - and still you can't picture your life being complete without them, don't find yourself fantasizing that you were someone or somewhere else when you're with them, and deeply trust, admire and respect them (and they, you) that you could call that love.

Answer 4

You will know you love someone when you don't have to ask this question. Honestly, you're probably too young to be thinking about marriage. Real love is different from teenage love. Trust me, I married my HS sweetheart when I was 19 years old. I wondered the same thing. Turns out, I was not in love with him. I was divorced at 23. Let yourself grow and learn more about life. You will be sure when it's real.

Answer 5

Okay even though im just a14 yrs old and you would may never take advice from someone my age it rally depends on how old you are. But let me get to the point, i think i knew that i loved my boyfriend when all i could do when i miss him is think about him. that he is on my mind all the time. That when im with him nothing else is on my mind during that time. That when i have to leave i really dont want to. That the whole time im on my way home all i think about is hom. But the most important thing is when you are with him you fell something special in your heart. Also that when you say i love you that you feel that its coming from your heart and you feel that you mean it.

Answer 6

Love is tough.

If you feel empty when he's gone, this is the most simple explanation to show if you love him.

Does he love you is more difficult.

If you are the center of his life. When you're out to dinner and beautiful girls pass by, and his eyes are for you alone, would be a good indication.

There are no guaranties.

By their fruits you will know them, just be aware.

Answer 7

Love is not real.

It doesn't last. After about five years it fades away

Some people get divorced because they want that love feeling back, and other people stay with each other and ride it out, because they can't find anyone else.

Love is only a biological reaction to a member of the opposite sex whom you think would be good in bed. Love is not what the TV or the Movies says it is.

Answer 8

marriage is a long time commitment. you have to be really sure that you love the person before talking about one. if you're far apart, do you miss him??? if yes, you have your answer already.

Answer 9

Love is accepting him how he is, giving him time to be alone or with his friends or with his family, love is never selfish. If you love him you don't have to be with him all the time that is not love. Love doesn't mean that you are going to change him or that you are going to change for him, it doesn't happen, We don't change.
I hope that this answer can help you.

Answer 10

if you have to ask, then your probably not in love yet. maybe infatuation, but not love. you won't need to ask, you'll just know. you'll never know for sure if anyone really loves you. but if you can't stand to be apart, worry when he's gone, think of his happiness over your own and is always in your mind - then you probably love him.