Me and this girl talk on the phone almost every night for 1 to 2 hrs but i'm also nervous then How do i stop the nervousness. ( shes also the first girl i've tried to date in high school So if u could give me some tips i would really luv it!! P.S. I'm a poet will that help too?
2007-02-08 12:08:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a poet? thats nice! listen i wish i could give you a manual of all the right things you should do, but every girl is different. the best thing that you can do, no lie, is just force yourself to talk to her and come up with some conversation. it happens to all of us to get so nervous around people that we like, but the best way to get over it is just to confront that fear. practice makes perfect. the more you talk to her in person, even if you'll still be nervous, the more you'll like it and the more you'll want to do it. so ante up and get in there!
2007-02-08 12:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The poetry thing will work in high school with the right girl. If you're talking on the phone a few hours a night you can probably pull it off, if she knows that you're into it. But if you spring it on her, like the only reason you're writing is because of her, then it could be a bit weird.
Come to think of it if your'e choking otherwise don't do the poetry thing. You need to find a way to materialize your common interests into conversation. Don't make it about "talking" to her in real life, just talk to her in real life. Eventually somewhere down the line you can tell her how you really feel and see what happens.
2007-02-08 12:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
USE THE POET FACTOR! The best thing you can do is give her poetry. That will make her feel special, like you took the time to write this wonderful/beautiful thing about her! Try to just start a conversation. Start out slow and work your way up to a great conversation. Just be yourself. Do you know if she likes you too? If she does, than tell her how you feel. It will also help break the ice.
2007-02-08 12:16:36 · answer #3 · answered by nutmehgy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she talks on the phone with you almost every night for about 1 or 2 hours, then she probably likes you. I don't think a girl would talk to a guy that much unless she liked talking to him as a friend or boy friend.
Just try to relax and enjoy her company and conversation. Be yourself. Share some of your poetry with her and ask her what she thinks about it.
Talk to her about her interest and what she likes. Enjoy her friendship.
2007-02-08 13:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by Seldom Seen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's a sure catch.. all you need is an ounce of courage to say the things that must be said..
you're being a poet might be an advantage that if she's romantic enough to read your piece she might be head over heels in love with you.
you can send her poems, be it creative, might hang it on a tree which she can pick it up on her way home, don't forget to include to ask her out it might be your last chance.. just be cool.. and say it.. "sieze the opportunity of the moment or the moment passes you by!"
2007-02-08 17:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by vincent van go 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to my daughter. She is probably as nervous as you are. Find a mutual interest such as sports or music and begin your face to face conversation that way. Also keep a notepad and pen handy during your phone conversations, make notes...You can always find healthy topics from your notes. If not poetry always works....Good Luck
2007-02-08 12:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by Ladie1965 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how u feel when u talk to her on the phone, maybe that will make it a little easier. Or u could write her a poem, wich would be really sweet.
2007-02-08 12:15:09 · answer #7 · answered by breonbebeh13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the best composition for your poetry. It is the only sincere love which gives birth to a poet. So forget your nervousness & tell her frankly that you love her & she is your poetry.
2007-02-08 12:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by P S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself man. She probably knows what type of person you are from the way you talk on the phone. Just be calm and talk to her. She must like you if she talks to you alot on the phone.
2007-02-08 12:24:48 · answer #9 · answered by Raven52 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her ur nervous and she will be cool with it and it will calm you down. I always just tell people I'm nervous and then I feel better. If she asks you why you're nervous, just say I guess it's from talking to you. That will sound sweet. Girls like sweet behavior.
2007-02-08 12:22:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋