ok so theres this guy, and i really like him, and he likes me too, and we're *this close* to going out, which is awesome
the only thing i'm freaking about is that what if we do end up together, and he tries to kiss me... i've never kissed anyone before and i dont wanna do it wrong... people always say "oh you can't do it wrong! its fun!" well honestly, i think thats crap. you can do it at least a little wrong and it may be fun if u've kissed them before and are not TOTALLY COMPLETLEY NERVOUS about it
if you've seen a walk to remember then u know what i mean... when she says "i might be bad at it" when he tells her that he wants to kiss her. then he goes "it's not possible"
IF ONLY that would actually happen.
see i'm also worried that if i'm a terrible kisser, he wont like me anymore... do i tell him that i dont know how to kiss? just as a little heads up? cuz i dont want him to never want to kiss me again.
what do i do??
2007-02-08 12:06:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i told my bf that i have never made out before and i was nervous that i was going to mess it up and he sadi dont be nervous just follow my leade...thats what you have to do just follow his lead its not really as nerve racking as youthink it is trust me just follow him and if your not really ready then he should be ok with the fact that your not ready so just either do that or follow hid lead....and from a personal experience dont be nervous just follow his lead
2007-02-08 12:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by Mimi J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't remember kissing, to be completely honest. I don't remember the first girl I kissed, and that was only like 14 years ago, not that long, considering I've been married for 8 years. Believe me, if you're a terrible kisser, a guy is not going to hold it against you, particularly, .... , well I think you get my point.
Girls need the kissing to get them in the mood and stuff, and it's important to them, but guys want to get onto other things. Not knowing how to kiss isn't that big of a deal; you two will figure something out, and then you'll be telling him how you want to be kissed, and then you'll wonder how you ever had that dilemma to begin with ...
2007-02-08 20:14:30 · answer #2 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and dont freak out. Yes there kinda is a right and wrong way. Drooling and making weird sounds is wrong but everyone has their own kind of styles of kissing. First you just need to relax, if it makes you feel better just tell him that you have never kissed before as a warning. That is a cue to help you out. Remeber to enjoy it and go with the flow and maintain your sense of humor becuase even with people who have been kissing for years, funny things happen. Its a good thing to laugh. Just remember to have fresh breath.
2007-02-08 20:12:39 · answer #3 · answered by bluealexblanche 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, stop worrying!..everyone has to have a first of everything at some point in their lives. you can't be that terrible...what's the worst that can happen? think about it. how can you really screw up by kissing someone on the lips? it's just like kissing someone you know on the cheek.
a tip that has always worked for me - just do whatever he does. after a while you'll get better at it and have your own way of kissing, no one ever kisses the same.
good luck =)
2007-02-08 20:14:51 · answer #4 · answered by LaLaLaa♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both like eachother now how would a bad first kiss change anything? He wont hate you for it. Maybe he hasnt kissed anyone either. Just go for it. Trust me a guy wont tell you that you are a bad kisser cuz that would mean no more.
2007-02-08 20:13:40 · answer #5 · answered by justin_49ers2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it comes to the point when he wants to kiss you, just tell him "I'm new at this" if he really likes you he should understand
2007-02-08 20:12:00 · answer #6 · answered by breonbebeh13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋