I'm currently single and I hate to sound like some desperate but sometimes I feel like I need a bf to help me get through some stuff. I think maybe because noone likes me, maybe cuz of my appearance? I also get sexual desires and I dont know why, like wanting to see how it is to kiss a guy & stuff.... Is this normal?
2007-02-08 12:02:33 · 5 answers · asked by googi3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, what's so unusual about that. But a bf won't help you get through anything you can't get through yourself; a relationship is only an asset if you're already whole to begin with, someones support is great, and everyone needs someone to listen to them, but a relationship is going to be more of a liability if you're going into the relationship needy.
You mention how it is to kiss a guy, have you never had a boyfriend, or just to be reminded of it because it's been a while? Or are you talking about curiosity about that person in general?
2007-02-08 12:09:14 · answer #1 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because we all go through that stage. I'd say that you are NORMAL. Some girls though, cross the line from NORMAL into DESPERATE by constantly needing that void filled. MAN go to a therapist instead of opening your legs will ya? Not you. but the other whores. Anyways, yes you are normal.
2007-02-08 12:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal to feel that way.
Just don't put your life on hold waiting for a boyfriend.
Don't get with a guy just to have a boyfriend.
When you're desperate that's when mistakes are made.
2007-02-08 12:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah..it's normal...i do feel that way sometimes. yes, a bf would happy make u happy but doesn't mean you couldn't be happy without one!!our lives are far more than that...live your life...it will come naturally...
2007-02-08 12:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. YOU ARE JUST DESPERATE FOR A GUY. GET OUT THERE AND MAKE YOUR SELF DESIRABLE.
2007-02-08 12:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by bubba 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋