Today I got in fight with x best friend because she start calling me names so she start pushing me and then we start beeting up each other but i know that she is sorry so m i.can someone give me some tips how to get back to be friends with her?
2007-02-08 11:57:49 · 16 answers · asked by abby 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
if you guys were best friends, then a simple apology should work. Go up to her, and say Im sorry about what happened, and cant we just forget this? if she acts like a ***** still, give it some time. You have plenty of time to reunite with her.
2007-02-08 12:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by ava 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you have told me and everyone that you got in a big fight and now you guys are sorry for doing it. There is something that goes to this sentence its called, Managing Impulsivity and Thinking Flexibly, you may use a dictionary for these, but Managing is known as Control and Impulsivity is no control, Thinking Flexibly is Consider the option of ones being, and also generating alternatives,
Thats what you are asking us for some options,
i know i might be blunt right now but some of what i said is true
One of my friends were in a fight because of a girl they liked they fought with each other in a challenge to who will be the girls bf, after the girl found out and told the my friends that she isnt looking for anyone right now well my friends were still pissed they kept fighting and was sentence to detention, afterwards they felt stupid for they did they puzzled and couldnt fine the right words to say to each other but when i came in i told them sometimes fights happen and sometimes its good to forgive each other so my friends understood and shook hands and starting to be friends again, like i said i didnt want them to fight for girl because they didnt have Managing, they had Impulsivity
And by thinking Flexibly they became friends again
i know i speak nonsense but this happened and i will never forget what happen
So my words to you is to be Sincere about what you would say and think before you act
Good luck
And Happy Valentines day
2007-02-08 21:09:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't crawl and lowrr yourself. If she was the one that started it let her be the one to end it and make up. Just stay cool and aloof. You would be surprised how much that gets them wondering why you are not begging.
The power of decison will be yours then and not hers. It may have been a power test anyway to see if she was the one in control of the friendship. Some people are like that! Don't snub her just remain aloof and unruffled. Aldso don't breath out a sigh of relief when she does eventuall;y apologize. Just accept it quietly as if nothing happened and never mention it again.
2007-02-08 20:29:01 · answer #3 · answered by Shelty K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know, I'd say that kind of freindship is one that does not need to be kept.... Because friends really dont' need to be beating each other up and calling each other names... But consdiering that that won't happen, I'd say to give at least a week apart without contact (or as much as possiable) with each other... Just tell her you need some "you" time... Hopefully you two will think about why you got in a fight to begin with....
2007-02-08 20:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by Rob D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her your sorry and you didn't mean what you said, you guys probably have been friends for along time, and you cant loose someone like that, me and my best friend of 11 years had a fight and boom were done that was 2 Mon ago and were still not cool . but you should not let it go that far. be the bigger person say you were wrong and a simple im sorry willl do
2007-02-08 20:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by Bewbies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if you truely are sorry, than it shouldn't be so hard to get back to friends with her. I know how it feels. I get into huge fights with my friends over and over. They are over in about Three days. Just apologize and see what happens I bet everything will work out for the better! Good Luck!!
2007-02-08 20:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by nutmehgy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be easiest to try and talk to her about it because true best friends always make up like a day after a fight. It's happened to me and my best friend like a million times. Don't let it get to you because if she was really your friend she'd care about you and try and make up.
2007-02-08 20:02:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to her and say arguing and fighting was stupid and i dont want to loose you as a friend over something so stupid so can we forgett about it
2007-02-08 20:16:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what you told us. You're sorry, and you'd like to go on being friends. Friends argue sometimes, don't worry about it.
2007-02-08 20:01:54 · answer #9 · answered by Beardog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apologise to your friend. If they don't accept your apology then they were not a true friend after all.
2007-02-09 06:57:11 · answer #10 · answered by reblhar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋