Ok so there's this guy... we are such good friends, but latley i have been feeling more. We always talk or txt, and we hang out on weekends with some other people. We watched scary movies and held hands. He told me he liked how it has been recently.. he likes the feeling but hes afraid to ask me out and he doesn't know why? I am totally confused as to if he likes me or what? I am afraid too, but i think we could just try and if worst happens.. we just stay friends.. what do i do?!
2007-02-08 11:56:54 · 13 answers · asked by ash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him what you just said "I am afraid too, but i think we could just try and if worst happens.. we just stay friends" cant go wrong with that.
gd luck
2007-02-08 11:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by Fabregas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I answered a similar question to this, recently (check my profile for details)... essentially, you need to communicate with each other... tell him how you feel and what you want... listen to what he feels and wants..
.. but above all, and before anything else, value your friendship!! Make sure that if the feelings are "one-sided", you will remain friends.
It is important that you are both honest and open with each other and that you don't let ego stand in the way of what could be either a beautiful friendship and/or a true romance.... just see where it goes and be there for each other - no matter what the outcome is.
I hope you both find the love you deserve. x
2007-02-08 12:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by tattooed.dragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he feels more for you as well and maybe he's frightened of spoiling your friendship because if a relationship goes wrong its very rare the friendship lasts..if you can reassure him by coming to an agreement that if either of you feel its not working yous should be honest with each other and say so before things get nasty thus keeping the friendship going
2007-02-08 12:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by angie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he is scared if you guys go out and you guys got really serious and something happened you would break up and he dosnt want to lose you as a friend because your probley the best thing that eva happened to him and maybe he is scared because you guys been friends and doent know wat to say or scared that you will say no or that his friends are saying other things like you should go out with that girl or she like you i hope that can can hepl you but you should try to tell him how you feel before its to late GOOD LUCK
2007-02-08 12:05:39 · answer #4 · answered by jaja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems like he likes u, and i think that u should ask him out if he seems to be taking too long
2007-02-08 12:00:57 · answer #5 · answered by breonbebeh13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly what you just posted here.
I'm very certain he likes you, he probably wants to know you are feeling the same way.
2007-02-08 12:00:58 · answer #6 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should just remain friends, it might ruin ur friendship and u really dont want that to happen. but maybe it might work its up to u look inside ur heart.
2007-02-08 12:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by carly m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they should have a Yahoo Answers for adolescents
2007-02-08 12:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask him first.
if hes too scared to ask, step up and ask him yourself!
just ask him how he would feel if you both took another step up into a relationship
2007-02-08 12:07:01 · answer #9 · answered by xcelticsbabee34x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not friends w/ guys when you hold hands. it's out there but you guys won't admit it to each other.
2007-02-08 12:05:12 · answer #10 · answered by soccerjock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋