how are you supposed to move on from a relationship that you thought could fulfill everything you were looking for, and just turn out to be absolutely nothing. i can't believe it. ugh =(
2007-02-08 11:50:01 · 22 answers · asked by this isnt my name. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I sincerely feel your pain. Going through the same thing. How can you bring yourself to love someone else if you're already madly in love with a certain person.
It's too damn hard to let go; even though in the end, you know you'll have to eventually.
2007-02-08 11:53:50 · answer #1 · answered by Nunya 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just give it time. It is not easy to move on when you had all your heart set on a relationship that you believed would fulfill your every need. But you must, for your own good and for your future. If you sit and just stare at the four walls wondering and pondering what went wrong, you will become more bitter and angry each day. You do not want to become bitter and give up hope on love. You are young, and you deserve to be loved and to have a loving relationship one day. Because it did not work out,does not mean you will not be happy the second-time around. Do not give up hope. We have all gone through such times and so many of us have not given up. And today we are blessed with fine spouses that love us and terrific kids. Have patience, do not give up and get out and meet new friends..Join a club, gym, volunteer, just keep busy. Good Luck
2007-02-08 11:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by Mari-Mari 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For starters - you get used to it because it wont be the last time. Second, you console yourself the best you can lol with whatever treats you need. Then you go find some hot celebrity guy and you have a few fantasies about him. Then lol, you slowly realize just what a hot catch you are yourself and you know that no guy that doesnt see you as desirable is not worthy of your time!
2007-02-08 11:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by radiancia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL I UNDERSTAND where u are comin from because i been through well its nothin much u can do but keep lookin till u find the right guy well dont look let that person come to you but like they say most guys are not perfect but you kno keep your head up and act like it doesnt bother even though it does but u kno we have to move on sometime it will take awhile but u will eventually move on and find that right guy
2007-02-08 11:57:09 · answer #4 · answered by kesha_9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok unlike all the lying men and gullible girls here i'm gonna give you the truth i'm not going to bs and say you haven't found the one yet cause the truth is you will never because men are inconsiderate male chauvanistic pigs even if he does love you he will cheat on you (especially if he goes to strip clubs trust me they do touch there and besides lap dances and i hope you're not one of those idiot girls who think lap dances aren't cheating.........i mean think about it when you're with someone you're only supposed to have physical contact with them.....if kissing isn't allowed then why is another naked body grinding on your man not if it happened anywhere else it would be considered cheating.....the only diffrence is the money)
it's not love that stinks it's MEN THAT STINK! and you can move on by remembering and looking at all the bad **** about men and thinking that you would have to live with that if it wasn't over....you could be like omg i am happy it ended i do not want to tolerate all his **** and waste my life thank god i'm free from him now
hope i helped and 'awakened' your eyes to the truth about the horrible opposite sex
2007-02-08 15:38:40 · answer #5 · answered by mamama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say that no one's perfect, so dont think that in a relationship everything will be okey...that is part of it and the only way for the cople to grow maturely, accept the imperfections in life, and when the time comes, you will son appreciate the true essence of loving others
2007-02-08 11:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by khatz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happens all of the time. Get another guy. That is why it is so important to date a lot of guys and get a good idea of what is out there.
2007-02-08 12:05:47 · answer #7 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh....so been there. fortunately for me, i ended the boring sucky relationship for tru love!
but its ok if youre not over excited about dating again. just lay low for a bit, and once youre comfortable, try again. youll want to correct all that went wrong last time, and thats ok, just dont be paranoid about it or youll freak guys out and theyll think you wanna be married or something.
keep your chin up and try to be happy.
good luck!
2007-02-08 11:56:12 · answer #8 · answered by marajader2d2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is awesome! Bad choices stink.
2007-02-08 11:54:13 · answer #9 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but relationships weren't meant to fulfill, just enhance. Great book to read...why men love bitches by Sherry Argov
2007-02-08 11:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by eleven 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋