He spends every weekend with his friends and only a couple of hours with me on Sundays, then I don't see or talk to him until Wednesday. Should I tell him how I feel about it or just let it pass until he finally starts to spend more time with me?
2007-02-08 11:36:06 · 18 answers · asked by Jessica P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well gurl, how long have ya'll been together? Well.....I know that my boyfriend and I spend more time together now that I have told him how I feel. But don't wait, because you will be waiting forever. Maybe because you haven't said anything is the reason he is still hanging with him boys. You should let him know how you feel, and that you would like for the two of you to spend a little more time together. If he really loves or likes you then he will be the respectful type and understand where you are coming from. So just tell him how you feel and let him know that you would like a little more you and him time.
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nancy
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2007-02-08 11:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay personally in sort of the same situation but im only 14 yrs old, plus my boyfriend and i dont go to the same school and event though im answering you r question u might think how we know each other. well thats another story. But back to your question lol.....lol... well if its really bugging you that you dont spend that much time with him then tell hi how you feel and hopefully he will see your point-of-view. and just might... just might start spending more time with you. But you also got to see that you cant always have your boyfriend to your self. He has to have his own me time and sort of have some time to spend with his friends and you can also do the same thing. It simple as this sometimes he is going to do things that you cant do because you are busy, same thing for you. You got to give it some time and you relaxe and have some me time thats all there is to it. I even had to realize that for my self to. So hopfully this will help you in any ways.
2007-02-08 11:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say just leave it alone, or at the very least just mention to him that you don't appreciate getting whats left over of his time, Then do your own thing. When he sees that you have a life beyond him and won't be waiting by the phone come sundays or wednesdays, it'll kick in. If this guy is really into you, he'll make more of an effort. Good luck and be strong!
2007-02-08 11:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem, if you have been together for quite a long time talk to him and if he makes out theres nothing wrong hes wasting your time. Seriously i broke up with my fiance for the same reason and he is a total looser for thinking his friends will make him happy.
I think he is wasting your time i know you probably love him but the truth is, is that you want to be with soemone that wants to be with you because he likes your company. and of course loves you. And thats the truth so why waste time with an idiot that doesnt even want to be with you.
I would find out the facts no matter how much ull hurt your better off knowing now than in the future when ur engaged like i was. All the best suga hope it all works out for you.
2007-02-08 11:44:40 · answer #4 · answered by Nat555 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your aren't much more than a possible or maybe possibly you are a booty call.
I would let him go. A guy who is really interested is with the girl more often than that! But, do allow a guy to be with his friends too and don't strangle him.
I still think he's not spending enough time with you.
2007-02-08 11:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should tell him how you feel!! He is your man, you two are supposed to share everything! But at the same time, dont restrict him. I always like to say: Whats good for the goose is good for the gander! And if things dont change then it might be time to just part ways...maybe his friends can do all the things you do for him (see how long that last!!)
2007-02-08 11:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by BooSha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You're lucky. My boyfriend only spends time with me on the VERY rare times(Only once we've done this, and we've been going out to the mall) we go to the mall, we spend a few minutes together. Otherwise, our time is when I walk past him and poke him or call him "Idiot Whale" in japanese.
2007-02-08 11:40:17 · answer #7 · answered by Vshak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind that guys need their friends, the same way that girls do. But talk to him, tell him you miss him and you want to spend more time with him. Guys need guy time, but remind him that it doesn't need to all the time, and that you "need" him there for you every now and then.
Show him in your actions that you want him there.
2007-02-08 11:41:29 · answer #8 · answered by Jordan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe becasue that's when he needs to get a piece and once he does he's back with his friends. Next time cut him off and see what happens. I would think you would kick him to the curb and find someone who really cares about you and treats you better. ANd maybe he's always with his friends because him and his friends are gay. Need to chat IM me anytime.
2007-02-08 11:42:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you definitely need to tell him that it bothers you. If he doesn't make any changes to his behavior then you start being unavailable to him. He knows that you are sitting around waiting and are readily available when he is ready to see you. Don't be. Maybe you need to be tied up with your friends for a while and see how he likes it? I can almost guarantee, he will not like it one bit!
2007-02-08 11:40:17 · answer #10 · answered by Meadow Soprano 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋