Guys please....????

Question

I need to know what a girl can do to impress a guy, and I dont mean Sex, or some crap like that!!!! If the girl is physically ugly, I mean she has a Nice face, but not a model's body and she's very self-conscious about her body.....What can she do to impress you?? are there other ways to impress a you guys, and make you fall for us girls without having to show our freakin a*s with a short skirt or thight shirts!! Please only serious answers, and PLEASE don't be rude!!

Thanks in advance!!!

Answer 1

This is a slightly tough question to answer, mostly because I am not entirely sure just what you are asking. So, let me try and look at this from a couple angles, and in the end maybe all could apply.

First, to impress a guy? As far as leaving them to think you are cool and fun or really good at whatever it is you do? This will depend on the guy. If they are into cars, it may be displaying similar knowledge. If they like video games, it will be keeping up with them when playing their favorite game. If they like sports... well, you're probably getting the picture already. In short, guys are actually pretty easy to impress! You simply must know what the interests of the specific person are and take an appropriate interest in the same thing. Often, simply taking the interest alone may be impressive enough.

From the additional comments you make in your question though, it seems like you are really asking how to attract attention and be like by guys. It will sound like something you've already heard, but there is a truth to "just be yourself." But I will add to that because unto itself, that might be a pretty useless piece of advice. Being yourself is about being comfortable with yourself. You may be self-conscious, but you will have to reach a point of being happy about where you are in life, or at least where you are heading. It's not about looking like a model or wearing something overly revealing, it's about projecting that you are you and you wouldn't want it any other way. And there is something very appealing about that kind of confidence.

If you are self conscious, ask yourself why, and be honest. Growing up alone can make us self conscious, and it may just take you awhile to be comfortable in your own body. If you want to tone up or such, look into an excercise program. Or whatever it is, decide how you'd like to address it and then start to work on it. And then, be yourself, be happy about it, and simply be available! There is no pressure in meeting someone, saying hi, smiling, maybe flirting a little! But it's easier, and you will come off as more appealing when you do it, if you have confidence in yourself.

Now, if you combine those two... be confident and available and take an interest in the person you want to like you and to be impressed, and you stand a good chance of succeeding!

Good luck.

Answer 2

First of all you should love yourself and not be asking how to go about winning a guy. You can't get a guy to appreciate you if you don't appreciate yourself. With that being said....Just be yourself - honesty. I know you probably hear it all the time, but any guy that is worth your time will never need to be "impressed" and he will get to know you for what's on the inside rather than the outside. If you really want advice, I found just being a good listener and not playing games gets you pretty far.

Answer 3

well... an easy way to impress a guy is to always hang out with him... not ALWAYS but if you're in school or something that might be a nice time to introduce yourself to him. also, be/pretend to be interested in most of what he says. try to make him feel jelous by talking to other guys, and for f's sake, STOP BEING SO SELF CONSCIOUS!!! it's the worst thing u could do to yourself!!!! believe me

Answer 4

ok well most guys only like the physical thing but i'll give u both... ok first i love the tihgt shirt not super tihgt but jsut a little make it say like a team sport that u played for like a softball jersey or something i like girls that play sportsfor pants just wear jeans and do your hair in a ponytail or free-flowing. for mental just think that he is always watchign you that makes me always sound serious if suddenly you feel funy just remind yourself act cool if you're always goofing off guys don't like that(i don't) good luck and have fun

Answer 5

the way to impress guys in this situation would be to be sweet, kind and caring and show that there is more to a women then good looks.

Answer 6

Have to be friends first,
Sweet and honest are always at the top