When it comes to women, I'm lost. I don't know how to read them, don't know what they want, clueless as to how to approach them without just bein that guy...tips, pointers, encouragment, mocks,....thanks
2007-02-08 11:25:34 · 17 answers · asked by Rdude 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the trick it to just be yourself, laugh when you want and be nice around them...
2007-02-08 11:29:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lost is the best place to be. Anything can happen when you do not have a plan. Embrace it. Every woman is different, but some things are the same. You don't want to say anything that pisses them off. You don't want to look like a dork(but sometimes that can make them laugh and that is GOOD). Be positive. Do not be a little ***** boy (complainer). Whatever happened to you in the past is none of her business and not her fault. You shouldn't think of a woman as yours. If they want they will give themselves to you, usually a little at a time. Compliment them on things that they have made an effort at. Beautiful girls are used to hearing how beautiful they are, or how pretty thier eyes are(whatever). If she sees you looking at her, she will know you are enjoying her looks. Ask questions, then listen more than talk. If you like the clothes they are wearing, tell them they have a nice sense of style. If they seem adorably unique, tell them that.
I cannot tell you what to say, exactly, so try not to keep phrases in mind. If you are into a girl, and you are not "worried sick" about impressing her, ideas will come to mind. Good luck to you.
2007-02-08 19:53:00 · answer #2 · answered by Hielodrive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. Firstly, you should be their friend. Make them feel comfortable with you. You don't have to pretend. Just be yourself. You'll eventually find someone who really suits you...
Next, when you feel comfortable enough, and when you get the signal that she's ready for you, talk to her. Don't worry. If she likes you too, you will never get rejected. But, if you have no confident to talk, make actions that to show that you want her. Maybe send a poem or dedicate a song for her. Or just send a card.
If she's not ready, tell her that you guys can still be friend and you just have to react as normal. I'm sure, when she started to fall for you, she'll come to you.
2007-02-08 19:38:05 · answer #3 · answered by girl_dragon2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I know it sounds dumb... but I think that the best recipe for success is just opening your heart up, and your self up. I am positive that there is a person for everyone (based on true life-hit and-get-hit-in-the heart-experience) If you meet someone you like, just try your best to be friendly, interested in their life and well, how sappy! nice. Not "I can win any limbo contest" nice, but just the nice that your grandma expected. Reject anyone who makes demands that don't feel right, remember nice guys and gals finish last.
It's not a reading lesson, it's a feeling lesson. Don't worry. your perfect mate is out there. When you meet you will know how far to bend. Faith is crucial and never ending. Peace. aj
2007-02-08 19:38:02 · answer #4 · answered by aj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when they say stuff like im bord or im tierd or when they are constantly chating u need to pay attention. depending on the look they give you just depends on what those things mean. if they look at you with a sad face but a tiny smile right after and say in the middle of it i am bord, then they are trying to get you to talk and laugh and do stuff with them. if they if they do that and say im tierd then you need to take a small chat with her and if she will let her lean against you (or somthing else). if the look is anything different than you either have them locked onto you or the dont really like you and whant to make the best of the sittuation.if they are chating with you and have that desperat look on ther face then you should go along with them and... well... try to get the relationship farther. if shes just chating with a normal look that she gives everybody then just let her talk.
2007-02-08 19:38:59 · answer #5 · answered by JoshR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just listen to them every girl is different and likes/hates different things I say this to a lot of people just play a game of 50 question to get to know each other better then it will be easier to know what to do. Also most girls like corny romantic things like a single rose try something like that to a girl you like, a pretty rose for a pretty girl....My boyfriend does stuff like this for me and weve been together for a year now its the best.
2007-02-08 19:30:45 · answer #6 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is free downloadable stuff on the internet that teaches you how to be confident and how to read women and respond to them, and how to approach them. Just do a Google search.
2007-02-08 19:29:10 · answer #7 · answered by browsebot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah just be who you are and if she doesnt respond much stuff her shes not worth your time. There is no need to work out woman because there all different. Woman are beautiful creatures and we just need someone to make us feel special.
So if you make us feel special thats the key to any girls heart. Not just by buying gifts its the whole package. So dont be shy ask the girl out somewhere. Good luck
2007-02-08 19:35:26 · answer #8 · answered by Nat555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ANY guy has a chance to sweep ANY girl off her feet. When talking to a girl have that in mind, it will add confidence. As far as girls go, they like attention. The trick is to not give them TOO much attention though. Girls go for guys that strike their interesnt, but like the chase. Compliment a girl, and if thats not your thing just talk to her, and put up a fight. If she says to call, say u call me. Not in a rude way but in a playful/flirty way. Don't talk about yourself to girls unless they ask. Ask many questions about them. It all goes back to attention. Don't go out of your way to talk to them, but when you do make it about them. I hope this helped.
2007-02-08 19:32:23 · answer #9 · answered by Hurt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing just be your self. i know it is easier said then done but trust me it works. and also do not act jerky. grls might think its funny but if it come to when you want them answer a serious question act normal well at least try. anyways. i also suggest you let her know how you feel. how you feel when you look at her in the eyes or they way you feel whne she sin the room. or how she wears that perfume that makes you want to take her in your arms like warm laundry. look i am single to and i hate it but hey you never know what night come your way.
2007-02-08 19:35:03 · answer #10 · answered by kelly s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being yourself. Women like guys that are confident, but
not clingy.....hard to get, but not TOO hard to get.
Women want to be made to feel special in EVERYTHING they do
and then there are the easy going women who are just who they are......easy going, whatever....doesn't mean they aren't worth it....if anything.....those are the women you want...less hassle.
Not too much info, I know, but hope it helps.
2007-02-08 19:29:51 · answer #11 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋