I'm 6'1 female and weigh 180 lbs and wear size 10. I realize I'm not super skinny (but I'm normally happy/okay with my body). Would you be okay with your boyfriend making inconsiderate comments about weight or body if you were this size?
2007-02-08 11:17:05 · 16 answers · asked by DebChick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound hot. Hell no I wouldn't be ok with the bf making inconsiderate comments. Neither should you. No one of any size say 400 pounds should be criticised by a loved one. There are enough p r i c k s out there to contend with already. He should defend you!
2007-02-08 11:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by Oz Billy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 6'1, 180 lbs is a perfect healthy weight. Your boyfriend sounds like an inconsiderate asshole. Tell him to shut up or you dump him. You don't need somebody making negative comments about your body type, which can be a very personal and touchy subject for women. Especially when you're not fat.
2016-03-28 22:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is definitely not okay. You are 6'1 for a reason and to weigh 180 lbs. at that height is what you should weigh. If you weighed like 150 you would probably be too skinny. You are who you are suppose to be and if he doesn't like it then you need to find someone that loves you for you. Don't ever let anyone run over you like that.
2007-02-08 11:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by slvrcss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no girl. Get out of this relationship fast before you end up being emotionally abused. Nobody has the right to make inconsiderate comments about your weight and size every chance they get. Seriously, you need to end this before you get hurt.
2007-02-08 11:26:30 · answer #4 · answered by angelgurl13191 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a fine weight. And to everyone who has this problem, remember this one simple fact: Muscle weighs more than fat does.
If your boyfriend is having difficulty with your weight, tell him to put up or shut up. It is your body and unless you are doing something dangerous to yourself, he has no right to say anything. Tell him to stop making comments like that because it makes you feel bad, if he continues and you still feel bad, remove him from your life.
2007-02-08 11:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im ur size and my man thinks its the sexiest thing ever... Your tall and so carry your weight well and even if u were bigger its NEVER EVER okay to comment if he claims to love you.... LEAVE HIM if he does not learnt to appreciate all 180 pound of you!!!
2007-02-08 11:26:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a supermodel. He sounds like he's intimidated by you and is trying to make you feel self-conscious about your height.
Maybe he has a Napoleon complex...(little man complex).
It's not o.k. for anyone to make comments about your body, unless you are asking them about something specific.
As long as you feel good about yourself, that's all that matters.
2007-02-08 11:29:38 · answer #7 · answered by Fired Up 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means, he wants to change you. If loves you he will avoid making comments or even conversation about it.
2007-02-08 11:26:26 · answer #8 · answered by rosemarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what if your not super skinny. who likes anorexics anyways?
if your happy with your body then he should be too.
he shouldnt be making rude cmnts to you.
if he continues leave him. who needs him?
2007-02-08 11:40:33 · answer #9 · answered by xkathiee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to post a photo.....you are probably pretty hot at 6'1".
2007-02-08 11:50:41 · answer #10 · answered by browsebot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋