There's this one guy i met my freshman year of college. i was studying for the psych midterm in the library and he asked to study with me. I've had a crush on him since then.
Since then wehnever he sees me we get into a conversation and we seem to have a lot of fun. Now I'm a senior and he's a 2nd year med student. he still goes to the same school. i now occassionally see him. I think I like him and I think I should tell him but I tremble when I want to tell him. I think what held me back was that I occasionally saw a girl with him and I thought he was taken. My friends said that they don't think he's taken.
Now that it is my senior year and I'm about to graduate, and he starts his clinical rotations nest year, I think it's time for me to move on. I want to know whether he likes me or not. He likes me i can establish a long distance relationship. He doesn't like me I can move on.
I know he likes to have lunch at the taco stand on campus but I also found his e-mail.
2007-02-08 10:52:37 · 6 answers · asked by christigmc 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doens't know I have his e-mail address. should I e-mail him and tell him or bump into him at the taco stand and tell him?
2007-02-08 10:53:10 · update #1
tell him up front. but i really would want a long distance relationship. if you could handle one then found out. if not dont bother school years almost up. move on. but u will never know if u dont.
2007-02-08 11:11:25 · answer #1 · answered by wishstar28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Christi-
Why not just give him your email address next time you see him, and invite him to stay in touch. Then ask him if he wants to go to dinner with you. The worst he can do is say no, and if he does, you can move on with your life.
Guys are funny, though, and since he hasn't made a move in all this time, approach it more as an interesting survey than as a statement of undying love. Best of luck.
2007-02-12 09:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by Dorothy and Toto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you comprehend he will be on the taco stand, you manage to be there too. Ask him in case you are able to refer to him for a minute. tell him that you've quite loved reading with him and because you're about to graduate and may not see him back, you've been wondering how he may sense in case you invited him out (definite, you are able to ask him for a date). If he's taken, he will with politeness decline. If he's not taken and is attracted to you, too, he will settle for the invitation. Ask him in the type of way that if he DOES decline, he can do it devoid of embarrassing you or himself. do not flow the e-mail direction - that is a touch too "grade college" (as in a note that asserts Do you want me? verify the definite or the no container) you're an grownup who's attracted to a special grownup. no choose for reticence. good success.
2016-11-26 03:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bump into him at the taco stand and tell him face to face.
you can have a casual conversation, and ask him out in that conversation, that way you don't have to come right out and say
"hey, i really like you." you can just talk about things that you may be doing (or he may be doing) over the weekend, and if he says something like "that sounds like fun." ask if he wants to join you.
or ask him if he has some time to go out for a beer sometime.
he can't send you to viet nam, so what is the worst thing that could happen? go for it. you will probably be pleasantly surprised.
good luck
2007-02-08 11:16:11 · answer #4 · answered by bmoline 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are too nervious to speak to him in person, so why don't you just write him a short e-mail reminding him of who you are, and tell him that you would like to go out with him sometime? Nothing too mushy, lest you sound like a stalker, but something short and to the point.
2007-02-08 11:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by Randy G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HI, TALK to him in his face !
2007-02-08 11:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋