im overweight n im n da process of losin weight. there is a gurl dat used 2 b my best friend n she has a lot of guys around he now.
i want her to n.v. me...
2007-02-08 10:52:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find the LORD and jenny craig
2007-02-08 10:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by todd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off losing weight should be something you do for you and your health. Secondly you can not build true self esteem just to knock some Else's down that is a waste of energy and it shows others that you are a sad individual that can not be happy unless you do that to others ( and you will reap what you sow.)
The hard to swallow truth: Self esteem comes from loving the person you are here and now and continuing to love and respect her without bringing someone Else's esteem down. (Cause at the end of the day your head goes and stays up cause you are a beautiful woman that deserves and earns the best.)
Good luck with your weight loss and finding your true beauty again beyond your outside self.
2007-02-08 19:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im overweight too, and i have great self esteem, ad ot because peopl envy me because I have confidence and other people see that, You have to learn to love and accept Yourself b4 andyone else can, and envy Is a very hateful emotion, it tears people apart, I would wat a friend to be happy for me and support me more than anything else not be jealous of me.... Envy Is one of the 7 deadliest sins... Would u relaly wanna lose a friend like that? You just need to not worry about her, accept yourself the way You are right now and they way Youll be when you lose weight
2007-02-08 18:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by Artsy-Fartsy-Momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at yourself in the mirror and try to look past yourself. Ask yourself by looking at yourself in the mirror, "What am I afraid of." Stare into the mirror and try to find that spot in your face, a look within. Tell yourself that you are confident in who you are and that you like yourself. Find your best feature. Tell yourself that you do look good and get over your imperfections. We all have them.
2007-02-08 19:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with learning how to spell. If you look good on paper, you'll look better in person. Chicks dig smart guys...trust me on this one.
2007-02-08 18:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a list of reasons why you like yourself
2007-02-08 18:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by Je vous aime. ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself..and dont let anyone boss you around and talk about u bad...but if its your boss..let him boss u around..anyone else just shoot em
2007-02-08 18:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋