ok i have a friend and i told her that i like a guy so the next day she asks him out when i was supposed to and now she always hugs and kisses and him right in front of me to get me jealous and she says that its not her fault cuz she beat me to it! i still act like i don't care and that things were how they used to be so yah what should i do!?
2007-02-08 10:49:42 · 29 answers · asked by Larissa loves austin! :]] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, shes certainly not a good friend, nor a good person. I wouldn't trust her!
2007-02-08 10:53:22 · answer #1 · answered by MichelleLynn 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is an issue that could possibly be worked out if you tell your friend how you truly feel and she is sympathic to your feelings. It sounds like immaturity to me. It depends on how long you have been friends as well. She may be a "bad" friend if she is not sympathic to your true feelings or if she continues to act in a competitive manor. Some women or girls are very competative with other females and the thing not to do is become competative unnecessarily. I have trouble being friends with competitive females because I don't like competing over stupid things (such as the attention of another person). I don't feel like people that compete for attention of others are good friends if they don't change when you tell them about it. It is very hurtful and rude.
2007-02-08 10:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by Soul Searcher 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If what you say is true......I would walk away from her "friendship".
With friends like that......who needs enemies. I speak from experience. My "best friend" in school went after EVERY SINGLE guy that I even thought I MIGHT like. Because of her
I only had one boyfriend in high school and it was a guy that
she went after, but he liked me so he chased me until he caught me. Needless to say, many years later.......her and I are no longer friends. I never gave up on her being a "good friend", but
then one day I realized that she was NEVER a good friend.
I wasted many years being a good friend to someone who was
NOT a good friend to me.
This will be the first of many betrayals.......if you let it.
Remember girls who do this have low self-esteem and she
figured if this guy is good enough for you then he is TOO good for her and to prove that she is worthy.....she went after him.
I know this is sad, but its true. Its should ALWAYS be friends
before boys and a girl that is willing to put a boy in front of your feelings is NOT worth your time.
2007-02-08 10:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another friend and another boy and get a backbone.
Bottom line: She did beat you to the punch and the only thing you can do is move on and keep this valueable lesson (it is better to have asked the guy if he would go out with you than to tell your girlfriend.)
2007-02-08 10:57:05 · answer #4 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a horrible friend, girls arent supposed ot compete for guys, When You told her you liked him, she should have given you pointers on how to get him, not steal him away and make you jealous.... she sounds like the kind of friend that would try to get a bf behind another one of her friends back.... god I hate girls like that, all she is gonna do is cause you more drama.... She has to see other people suffer so she can be happy with her own life.... No one needs people like that...
2007-02-08 10:54:29 · answer #5 · answered by Artsy-Fartsy-Momma 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bad, bad, friend!!
She is obviously threatened by you and is out to prove something.
A real friend would have stepped aside and not pursed the guy you expressed interest in.
She obviously has low self esteem and is doing this to try to make herself feel better. Friendship is not about competition!
2007-02-08 11:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by Fired Up 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she is a bad friend. It appears that you have been given the opportunity to stand up for yourself and grow as a person. You need to put your boots on and walk out the door. She isn't worth your time.
True friends respect each other's feelings, true friends go out on a limb for their friends. She isn't a true friend.
Move on
2007-02-08 10:53:32 · answer #7 · answered by missourishol 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have to ask that question then you have had some pretty bad friends. Yeah shes bad, how could a good friend completely destroy a friends future relationship. i hope you work things out.
2007-02-08 10:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by Rach 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats a pretty slimy move on your friends part, but she is right in a way. If you did less talking about making the mave and just went for it, he might be yours now.
2007-02-08 10:53:12 · answer #9 · answered by answerman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a shi**y way of doing somebody. She was never your friend in the first place at all. She was only riding your shirt tails until you find someone you liked that she could take away.
I would ditch her in a second.
2007-02-08 10:54:25 · answer #10 · answered by roseygurl99 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not really a friend in my opinion.
If I were you, I would let friendship cool a little and hang out with people who actually respect you and your feelings.
I hope things work out for you.
2007-02-08 10:53:48 · answer #11 · answered by Great Dane 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋