Question for girls. How should I approach this girl and what should I say to her?

Question

I'm a recently single guy who is very shy when it comes to meeting women. About three months ago when I was still with my ex-girlfriend, I was inside a department store and I noticed a woman working behind the cosmetics counter who I was very much attracted to. I said hello and gave her a compliment but didn't say much because I wasn't single at the time and didn't want to cheat.

Now that I'm single, I went back to the store pretending to do some shopping but really to see this girl. It had been three months since I last saw her. She seemed to remember me but I couldn't quite tell if she was just being polite by talking to me or if she was interested. I wanted to ask her out or ask for her number but because of shyness I just made small talk and chickened out by saying "I'll talk to you later".

My question is: the next time I see her, what should I say to her?

Answer 1

Why dont you try something different? I would say get some flowers, walk into the store...... walk up to her and simply say
I walked past a florist and when I saw these it made me think of you so I picked it up........hope you dont mind. Leave the flowers on the counter and walk away.......leave the store. Make her wait,
give her time to think of you.......go back in a couple of days
and strike up small talk........see how she reacts to you.
If she is interested you WILL know........if not......you WILL know that too.

Remember that no matter how you decide to approach her
YOU have the luxury of knowing where to find her and she
has NO CLUE who you are.....so if it doesn't go well...
you walk away and just dont go back to that store.

Good luck

Answer 2

The next time you go into the store, go up and say hi. Look her directly in the eyes and say you came in that day to pick something up. When she asks what, say your phone number, I wanna take you out sometime. If you're direct, smiling, and engaging (and she's single!) you'll probably get it man. then you're on your own bro!

Answer 3

Have some function to go to, that way she'll know that it's a date. Concerts, big movie premiers, Plays.....something that says let's kick 2nite. Use your imagination, once you get over your shyness you'll know what you want to do with her. But don't jump into another relationship because you're not ready.

Answer 4

Well be yourself, dont put on a show or be some one your not!
Ask her if she would like to go to dinner with you. I would avoid the movies since you dont know her know her, you want to get to know her and in movies you dont talk! So do something that enables you to chat..... Hope this helps... Oh and something I have always wanted from my boyfriend from a girls point of view.
A nice picnic in a medow of flowers under a shady tree....
Just a though.... ;) good luck sweetie....Dont be nervous you'll do ffine.

Answer 5

in my view i imagine the boy ought to ask out the lady even though it quite is because i'm from Chicago and that is what we regularly do right here yet then some relationships are ruined because the guy is to shy or they woman is to shy in my college we've boys and females and the ladies often refer to the lads and then the ladies often communicate between themselves same with the lads. i'm not shure if this helps it should be a touch unclear even though it quite is my opinion.

Answer 6

Just be more up-front. And you have to get over your "shyness" because unfortunatly break-ups happen and and you should be ready to aproch someone new.

Answer 7

Ask her if she likes ___ and take her out for lunch..

make small talk and then throw in a small proposal she cant deny

Answer 8

girls usually like outgoing guys. she aint gonna freak out if u just be up front with her, just ask her for her number or on a date. if she likes you she'll do it. u've got nothin to lose

Answer 9

Just be yourself and start to chit chat and ask her if she would mind if you called her sometime and get her number.