You can never be sure you will love someone forever. They will change and you will change and the trick to staying in love is to not grow apart while you grow. Try sharing your lives and being a team rather then being married or in love. Love is a mixture of so many other emotions and as passion fades and it will, you have to rely on the other strong feeling you have. Good marriages take hard work, anyone who thinks that love should be a natural thing that just is, will find out they are wrong. I know I have been married three times. I loved them all at one time and the third one is the love that I work for. Happy now, passion is alive and the love is still growing 9 years now.
Good Luck
Tracylyn S
2007-02-08 10:45:20
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answered by Tracylyn S 3
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Loving someone isn't hard. Love is simple and directly from the heart. You'll know you're in love if you feel like a child again, because our childhood is the purest thing we have and that's what love is. Pure and without limits.
Forever.....well, I personally believe that once you love someone that person will always stay safe inside your heart. You'll always have the memories you shared because they showed you a little piece of heaven. You must remember, though, that no matter how much you love someone, you can't hold onto it if it's not right. Sometimes loving is letting go.....
2007-02-11 19:55:51
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answered by EMonk 1
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According to Fromm, Love is only realized when the two separate people have maintained WHO they are, and have accepted eachother in the most absolute way. Love is not, not, not some magical thing that will never hurt you. But when you look at it---and I mean, look at it COMPLETELY---do you believe that, no matter what happens to your relationship, that the fact that you got a chance to experience it was worth any hardship, pain, or chaos that it caused or included?
Love is a bet, just stay honest, remember who you are, and in the end, remember that we are all just trying to be a little less lonely. You can't predict what you are going to wear to the party next week, much less whether or not you'll be "in love forever". Relax and just be in love, if that is what you want. And maybe, just maybe, it'll all work out.
Goodluck!
2007-02-10 03:37:26
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answered by Anonymous
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OOOH LOVE....
That is the question::
I believe that when you can't be without them, when you are apart you long for each other, you don't feel like you have learned enough and want to know more about someone, When there sick you worry, when they cry you cry, when you say something hurtful you actually feel bad, and worry how hurtful your words might have been. When you worry about them, when you look into there eyes you still feel lost and happy, in an intense moment you feel butterflies, You have fun with them. You think of them when there not around, if you ever dream of futuristic things and want to keep dreaming. When you've given them your heart and beared your soul, they know your worst moment and your best moments, and you know there's or at least want too, Why would you want to settle for anything less if you don't have that now. Thats how i know
In love for six years now, and still can't imagine a day without him not even on his worst. It can happen to everyone is he someone you want too love?
2007-02-10 17:09:00
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answered by Anonymous
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I can't specifically answer your question on account of I've never been in love. But something tells me you know. You think about that person for no reason at all, you want to call them just cause its Tuesday. I think some how your heart knows you love someone, even when your mind doesn't.
2007-02-12 01:44:42
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answered by Danielle J 1
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love is something that will definitely change your life. it's not up to you if that change will be in a good way or in a bad way. that change is going to come unexpectedly. it will get you, your heart and everything that you represent. when you are in love you feel that life is beautiful, that the days and the nights are way to short for you and your beloved. you find yourself day dreaming, thinking how you should show your feelings in the most original way. i think that love is something that everyone on us should feel. we all deserve it. it gives you motives to fly without an airplane, to get to the moon in mater of seconds, to actually smell the flowers and see funny clouds shapes. that's what love feels! and when you feel that, you must not think about the next day, or the next week or year. it's there, so just enjoy it. this advise comes from someone who got hurt some time ago, but now she can dream again. for me, forever is now!
2007-02-08 21:43:50
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answered by here4u 1
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You know when it's love... but forever might not happen, you can be so in love with a person but someday maybe you can fall out of love with them as well. Impossible you think but true. Love is really hard to describe but you'll know when you are in love trust me.
2007-02-08 10:43:46
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answered by cremedelacreme 3
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Well... without God there is no love, because God is love. So before you claim to love someone, you must ask God is this love? People claim to love someone but when it really comes down to it and times get really hard... can you see yourself praying for and standing by that person. Forever is an awful long time to be with someone that you don't really love. :>)
2007-02-09 15:01:28
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answered by Sililoquy 2
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If you really love someone trust me you wont have to question if you love them or not, but to know if you will love them forever depends. Some say real love never dies, but if you find another love that may not always be true.
2007-02-09 13:26:28
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answered by duval_princess 1
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The second part of your question is you really don't know if you are going to love them forever, but you should have enough mutual respect and love for one another to commit to make it last.
2007-02-08 10:42:20
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answered by Anonymous
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