is he in love with me or playing me?

Question

My ex boyfriend and me broke up 1 month ago and before that we didn't speak for about 1 month, and now we started talking again. he explained to me why he had to break up with me, cause his mom doesn't like me and she took everything away from him and he has no job, so he's financially dependent on her. i still believe that if he really would want me, he'd find some way but circumstances are difficult. Now, he has a girlfriend which is his moms friends daughter and his mom approves. now i know what ur thinking, he's a mommas boy who can't stand up, (i can't force him too, it should be something he does on his own.) but neway, so now the thing is we talk everyday, when we see each other we kiss and everything. i feel like the other woman which i am and i don't like it cause i want to be the only one. also, he doesn't tell me he loves me or say he misses me, at all, but he shows it. is he playing with me, or something else? please help.. thanks for any advice.=)

oh and this mom situation did not come out of the blue, its been on going for a year or so. he was stressed out like crazy before we broke up because of her. he couldn't even attend school. we dated for 3 years and 8 months. i wouldn't want him to be unhappy or me be in this sick cycle, but i really do love him. what do i do?

Answer 1

You can't change him or his mother. So why is it that you would subject yourself to him using you as the "other woman". Aren't you worth more than that?

You deserve to be in a relationship where you are cherished, loved and NOT the other woman. I am sure you have heard of the saying..do unto others and you would have done to you..if you don't want to be cheated on then don't be involved with somebody that's cheating.

He obviously has no respect for you, or this other girl (who by the way is completely innocent). Grab your respect and tell him to get lost.

Best of luck to you.

Answer 2

Why do you want to be with a guy who broke up with you once and is now using you to cheat on his girlfriend?

Find a guy with less baggage.