Just wondering a perception I have with an ex of mine who I have not heard from in 15 years. I treated this woman like a queen, never fought, were deeply in love, planning on getting married, and then she broke it off. I was deeply hurt and took awhile to get over it. But just wondered in all that time, not a phone call, letter, e-mail, nothing since we broke up. Just wondering if anyone has done this or have gone through and equally puzzled...
2007-02-08 10:34:02 · 16 answers · asked by St.Jeb 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yah, it is easy to wonder what these "unresolved" relationships
would have turned into and what that ex is doing now, but
HONESTLY, if you think about it WHY do you care if she hasn't contacted you?? Why would she?? Once a relationship is over...its over. It is VERY rare that two people stay in touch
and develop a friendship.
I am going to go out on a limb and say that maybe she couldn't handle a good man. You know, unfortunately, women don't
usually go for the good guy.....why??? Who knows, but its a well known fact.
If you REALLY want to find her try people search. IT will give you
companies that locate people. Then you can find out how truly miserable she is without you.......cuz that IS what you want to
hear, right?? Even after 15 years there is still a part of you that
wants to say "HA.....IN YOUR FACE!! You left me and I am
all the better for it, but look at you."
Why waste your energy?
2007-02-08 10:46:10 · answer #1 · answered by Trish 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have regretted leaving you from day one. The jerk I left you for was a monster. Not only that, you treated me with so much affection, love and dignity, I have never met anyone else like you. I love you still. I haven't tried to contact you because you married and I even met your kids at the doctors office I worked in. One was sooo very like you. I will love you always. I'll probably lose points for this 'cause I'm way out of guidelines, but it's worth telling you that I will always love you.
2007-02-08 10:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there is alway's that one person that you alway's remember and think about. I had a boyfriend and we were together for about three years and then totally lost touch. And last year I found him after my divorce we dated for 6 months but you can never have what you had before. Now we dont speak to each other but yes I still think about him a lot.
2007-02-08 10:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women are pretty erratic and would make decisions out of the blue, without rhymes or reasons that we men could ever logically figure out. Forget about her and concentrate your energy on a lady that would reciprocate your love and devotion. Best wishes...
2007-02-08 10:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's been 15 years. You've both changed. Why does it matter?
What do you expect from her now?
Let it be, move on. Finding her will serve no purpose and will not help you in any way.
2007-02-08 10:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I surely have about 6 Ex-GFs who continuously call me, even tho all of them broke up with me, or perhaps both who're married nevertheless call. What am i able to assert? all of them omit me. and that all of them now comprehend what a huge mistake it became to split with me, because now they are all depressing.
2016-11-26 03:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by elias 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kind of, mostly to see what he looks like now cause back then he was so hot!
I mean six three, long dark blonde hair, cute smile, blue eyes and artsy, (my fave type) But that was like 8 years ago...and we have kids now form people but it would be nice to see what he looks like I guess.
2007-02-08 10:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you loved her that much thiers nothing wrong with making sure she's o.k. but u really cant expect anything out of it. people break up for a reason, even if its fear. don't be hurt if she dosn't want to talk she's moved on but it's probibly best if u do the same.
2007-02-08 10:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by mybabiescea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it amazing how some people can just sweep you aside. Yes, it hurts, but she didn't know then and probably has a different view on your relationship.
2007-02-08 10:38:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey your not alone yeah i contacted my ex even go to see her i still worry about her everyday but no i did not go back to date her to hard on me right now maybe a little more time before i ask again
2007-02-08 10:41:05 · answer #10 · answered by russellpeltierjr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋