they say a wedding is the biggest day of a women life why? It alway about the women and not the man.
2007-02-08 10:03:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If you want to believe in what "they say" you can but it can be what you want it to be. I can say that my husband was the center of attention at our wedding. He even went with his groomsmen and picked out the tuxes and accessories that they were going to wear. I didn't see the tuxes until the day of the wedding. The one thing that we agreed upon was the colors and that was about it. His tux was different from all the other guys in style and he had different shoes and he wore a hat to match. I think you should talk with your bride to be and tell her how you feel and then go with what you want to do because it is your day too. You should feel it is your biggest day for you as well.
2007-02-08 17:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by kio2buy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure but I think it might be because women are generally the ones that can't wait til their wedding day. This is the one day where women feel loved by all and most of all by the one they are marrying so we want it to be perfect. This the day to get the dream dress, dream hair, shoes, music, hotel, honeymoon, flowers,.... The list can go on forever. I am sure it is as important to the men as it is too women but it is not everyday where you walk down the aile in a wedding dress. How many times does a girl hear "You are a beautiful bride today". Men have the chance to wear Tuxes at other weddings but the wedding gown is something that is usually only worn once.
2007-02-08 10:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by someone ha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've always found this to be unfair. It's just that little girls start planning their weddings before they meet their future spouses. They get to wear the expensive dress - which is purchased - while the men rent a tux.
Plus, the bride's father is suppose to pay for the event - a remnant of the dowry.
Most men I know say their wedding day was the biggest day of their lives.
2007-02-08 10:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by txkathidy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That answer should be so obvious to you, everyone knows woman put more heart into wanting to get married than men. The planning ,the dress, the whole ceremony thing is what all little girls look forward to when they grow up. You ask a man what do you look forward to when you grow up, they sure are not going to say getting married. The marriage thing is like a continuation of a girls life. First the prom, then maybe going away to college and then finally getting married,with most females it's pretty much in that order, and they want that day to be special, they feel like Cinderella and you are their prince. Now I know most men could care less about the flowers the arrangements of the whole ceremony,that's why the woman does all the work, she feels it's her day whether he feels the same or even men who do want to get married are not so involved in what it takes to prepare to get married. It's a bigger step for woman than men realize,that's why they want the expectation of a fairytale to remember always, because after all that, comes the kids the housework etc. And they realize that will probably be the only day, they can say was their special day.
2007-02-08 10:21:34 · answer #4 · answered by glorene b 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They say its a woman's day because women dream about their wedding day all their lives. Men could really care less until the time actually comes. Men should have an equal part in the planning though. But don't even try to make decisions on flowers, or dresses or decor etc. You might want to be responsible for picking a dj and the food.
2007-02-08 10:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by Beffy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For the most part, men don't want much to do with the planning; the women are left with all of the planning & decisions, so when the day arrives, and it turns out beautifully, it's her day.
If the groom expresses an interest in helping to plan, that's wonderful! Then, by all means, it's their day.
2007-02-08 13:28:16 · answer #6 · answered by Happy Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know
but in my opinion it is about the couple. and it is the biggest day of the couples life starting a new chapter in their life together as a couple. having all of their family there so they may wittiness the couple share the biggest moment in the couples life and the joining of 2 families as one
2007-02-08 10:17:30 · answer #7 · answered by silver_princess16_03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Traditionally, it is.
For the most part, men DESIRE (ed) to stay OUTTA da WAY. TOO much an emotional rollercoaster. Stupid plannings (flower color to match outfits? Come on. Font design for invites?..plez)
But it can be a man's day, IF he DARES to get involved fully (yike!)
Then your guests will definately refer to it as THEIR day if you do.
As a Women I avoided it all.
As my husband said, as long as we get married I don't care. I AGREE.
2007-02-08 10:15:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theyre always so excited and the brides parents usually pay for the wedding lol
2007-02-08 10:11:25 · answer #9 · answered by Counting the Days. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, but here it goes...............BECUASE WE DO ALL THE PLANNING WHILE YOU GUYS SIT ON YOUR REAR-ENDS AND WATCH SPORTS!....that's why. It is the finale of all of our work we did to make that day possible. All you guys do is show up.
2007-02-08 10:21:20 · answer #10 · answered by blondie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋