My boyfriend of three years adores me and treats me like a princess, I love him loads. I get on really well with his mum, but ive noticed recently she is getting more suggestive to me and is flirting loads. I know she was bi in the past and is now married, but its starting to turn me on. HELP.
2007-02-08 10:01:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
and you asking on yahoo answers what to do ...ooohhh dear
2007-02-08 10:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by plasterur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is the relationship between your bf and his mum, can't be that close otherwise she wouldn't be trying it on with you. don't even think about going there, it's just a recipe for disaster. It would tear boyfriend's, his moms and moms husbands lives apart, not to mention your own. Tell her politely but firmly your not interested, but if your curious about girl on girl action, look elsewhere. Don't keep it in the family
2007-02-08 11:20:16 · answer #2 · answered by Rob98uk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, u need 2 get straight in your own head what it is that u want. U need to decide what it is that u want. is the mum just a fantasey, and if it is, what could happen if it came true. u would lose your boy and thats 4 real. the saying is blood is thicker than water. Believe me it is true huni. U need to decide by ya self who u want and u need to stick by that decision. u cant mess with peoples's family's cause u will allways lose.
2007-02-08 10:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. She may not even know she is doing this. But if she does, if you care for her son, don't hang out so much at his house. If you tell him, it will only cause a problem with them. So just try to avoid being in her presence. If it is unavoidable, and it is very noticable, let her know that it bothers you. Address her to her face. like " you are making me uncomfortable with your suggestions" If you do anything with her, you will lose him.
2007-02-08 10:10:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first find out what your real sexuality is. Are you bi? Its ok if you are, however if its turning you on then I would have a real heart to heart with your bf. If its bothering you then deffenatly talk to your bf then maybe to the mom, let her know that your in love with her son not her. Be kind, but firm. if it continues then you may want to bring your bf into talking to the mom. good luck
2007-02-08 10:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your boyfriend. Talk to his mum. Are you BI? If this is the first time, ask yourself if it is just the attention she is giving you that you like or if there is actual sexual attraction towards her. If you think you ar BI, you have to tell your boyfriend your feelings.
2007-02-08 10:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by Karen A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u want to go out with the mum and son? u have to decide what u want and choose one. if u really love ur boyfriend, then havin a relationship with his mum will hurt him.
2007-02-08 10:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by rambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
expensive Anthony, in case you ought to decide on to have a woman participant on your no strings connected sex and video games of dominance and superiority - I propose you e book a first type fee ticket to Amsterdam and visit a brothel that specialises in this form of keep on. Veronica xx
2016-12-03 22:14:09 · answer #8 · answered by cottom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's nice. Tell your boyfriend about her or tell her to stop it yourself. Try not to make it sound awkward for your bf.
But look at it this way: at least you are getting to know the family and you know that they like you.
2007-02-08 10:06:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His mom sounds creepy.
If you really love your boyfriend "load," don't mess around with his mom. Pretty simple, really.
2007-02-08 10:04:52 · answer #10 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um ew! If this happens, or continues, ask her politely to back off, you are not into that kind of lifestyle, if that doesn't work, tell your bf, he needs to know what is going on if you can't get her to back off
2007-02-08 10:04:41 · answer #11 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋