okay so i've had this conversation with my boyfriend a couple of times before. I dont mind if he had girls that are friends its just this specific one who happens to be my friend. They had seemed to be getting real close lately and i wasn't too happy about it. Even my other friends would say stuff my sister told me 2. He keeps saying that he loves me and not her and that i shouldn't worry about anything. I say I don't but i do. I don't know if i trust him either. He hangs out with her mostly during the time during lunch and THAT"S the only time we have with each other. Everytime i'm not around she's there. She's even told me that there is nothing going on but i can't help but see that he seems like he enjoys her company more then mine even when we are in the same room he'd go to her and chat as if I'm not there. I get heated and i know i don't deserve this-what should I do im down to the last straw. I'm sick of worrying.
2007-02-08 09:59:10 · 12 answers · asked by haliverryberry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave him before you get hurt because he obviously does not want to show one girl attention and she is not a real friend if she is hanging and flirting with your bf! Both don't respect you, you can do better!
2007-02-08 10:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by imissrascal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was in the same boat with you a few years ago hunny, If he is wanting to spend more time with your friend at long or where ever you guys hang out at and tells you NOT to worry, then there is something going on. If i were you, i'd dump the guy and diss your friend, you dont deserve to have a boyfriend like that or a friend. Forget them, you can make new friends and find someone better then that. Listen to what your heart says. Good Luck!
2007-02-08 10:06:28 · answer #2 · answered by tommi_ghurl_2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He gets up and goes to her rather than sit with you? This is NOT good. They may just be friends (althought i dont think so) but he should realise that he needs to be with you and not her. Your right in that you do not deserve this and i hate to say it but you should break up with him. But before you do think about it (becuase you know best whats going on) do you really like him and would like to work it out or is there any way he will stop hanging out with this girl. You should give him a choice "Be friends with her, or Be with me."
2007-02-08 10:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by gotansas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him about the issues and how you feel. Be sure to castigate him for even thinking about talking to another member of the female species. Threaten him with whatever seems important to you. Within a very short period of time you won't have to worry about trying to make him fit your preconceived mold.
2007-02-08 10:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
females get quite jealous once you get on the point of their friends. do not do it in case you pick your gf to imagine you want her. heavily do not do it. you may want to be fantastic and pleasant to her friends because females like understanding that their friends approve of their bf yet do not over do it. once you be conscious her friends wave or say hi. yet you may want to no longer textual content call or search for suggestion from such as her friends considerably. do not hang around with them except you're such as your gf or maybe as such as your gf pay more effective interest to her than all people else. yet for sure nevertheless be fantastic to her friends : )
2016-10-17 06:06:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not going to sugar coat anything, but if hes acting more like a boyfriend to your friend then you need to let him go I know he wouldnt like it it were to happen to him. You dont make yourself look any smarter by staying with him. I know its hard but whos more important you or your friend
2007-02-08 10:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
same things goin on with me...i enjoy the company of my girlfreinds bestfreind a whole lot...she is a really good conversationalists...but she told me not to talk to her so much when shes around, i respected her, i only talk to her indepth when shes not around
tell him again you dont like it when he ignores you for her...if he cant respect that...he doesnt love you...sorry, dont meen to be so straightforward
i would do anything for love
2007-02-08 10:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by red_lucifer_angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my bf spent his lunch with another girl instead of me I would kick him to the curb. I would also tell her to back off.
2007-02-08 10:05:02 · answer #8 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're unhappy, and you've told him about your problems and he's not doing anything to make you happy, then he's really not worth it.
Every girl deserves a guy that will make an effort to make her happy :)
2007-02-08 10:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
did u tell him how u feell ? i wouldd kill ma frd if she did that too me ..i wouldd bee so madd..orr break up with him and kicckk her ***
2007-02-08 10:04:42 · answer #10 · answered by xhetal09x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋