i can't find a man not even online, i thought i had one he is a good friend and i have know him for years?

Question

but, it's like he is playing games with me when it comes to getting together at a restaurant to talk now he is out of town with work i haven't heard any thing and i wonder i'm i wasting my time because i'm so sick of games

Answer 1

He is either married or has a girl friend. You deserve better. If you would be satisfied with a friend feel free to write.

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Answer 2

First of all you should probably re-evaluate the type of guys that you're looking for. You should probably stay away from the online guys. I would say move away from the guys that like to play games. Life is too short and make it a point to this guy that you're not interested in playing games and you are looking for someone that wants to be with you and not just there for a good time, or to play mind games with you. Good luck!

Answer 3

You are feeling that because it is probably true. A good relationship needs to operate on a two way street, and if it is continous in the game playing and meeting, it does get frustrating. What I would do is express your desires to him if you are interested. Just be positive and the right one will come along when you least expect it!

Answer 4

the only times i've been really lucky with guys was when i stopped looking. i find that when i'm focused on myself and not looking for anyone else to make me happy i get way more attention!!!

make you happy without a man. read a book you've always wanted to. get a massage once a month. get a new haircut. take a class in something you are interested in. masterbate. exercise to get rid of extra energy. travel somewhere new - even if it's just an hour away. hang out with your friends and family.

it's hard, but we all gotta do it. if you keep looking for a man to complete you, even if you find one, you will never be complete.

Answer 5

god, i'd be dying to meet you if we were chatting online for years.. i think this guy may not be telling you the whole truth. could be he's hiding that he's married, who knows? sounds like he's trying to back his way out of your friendship/relationship, whatever you want to call it.

you might be wasting your time with him, but don't give up hope. there are plenty of decent single guys out here, including me, who use the internet to attempt to make new friends in hopes that one will eventually turn into love.. never give up hope!

Answer 6

If you want to find a "good guy" then you are probably looking in the wrong places. You probably need to join volunteer organizations or try to meet guys in church socials.

Answer 7

maybe, or maybe he's just not where he needs to be right now i know i do this to a couple of girls just beacuse im not where i want to be in order to go out with them if that makes any sence
maybe hes not ready for the type of relasionship that you have to offer right now?! anyways i think thats what it is being a guy who does this

Answer 8

good things come to those who wait esp. love don't look for it ,it will find you I know what i am talking about i myself is also single and available i am just waiting

Answer 9

Stop trying to find one that is when they start looking for you. I mean the good ones.

Answer 10

Why not try something different? If you are not attending church services, even if you are... Find a Non-denominational Church of Christ and begin attending there for a few weeks. They use ONLY the BIBLE to teach and preach GOD's WORD from. There should be a number of eligible young men available for you to choose from. You sound like you have a great head on your shoulders. Just take your time and spend good time getting to know the man that you spend time with so you end up with someone who cares for you. You are very special. GOD created you special. There is only one person that is YOU!

To become a real Christian, we are told that we must HEAR the WORD in John 6:45, Jesus said, “It is written in the prophets, And they shall all be taught by God. Therefore everyone who has heard and learned from the Father comes to Me.” We are also told so in Romans 10:17 So then faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God. We are told the we must BELIEVE in Hebrews 11:6 But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him. We are also told so in Mark 16:16, Jesus said “He who believes and is baptized will be saved; but he who does not believe will be condemned.” and in John 5:24 "Most assuredly, I say to you, he who hears My word and believes in Him who sent Me has everlasting life, and shall not come into judgment, but has passed from death into life. We are told that we must REPENT (or turn from sin) in Luke 13:3 I tell you, no; but unless you repent you will all likewise perish. Also in Acts 17:30 Truly, these times of ignorance God overlooked, but now commands all men everywhere to repent. We are told to CONFESS CHRIST in Romans 10:9-10 that if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart one believes unto righteousness, and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. We are also told in 1 Timothy 6:12 Fight the good fight of faith, lay hold on eternal life, to which you were also called and have confessed the good confession in the presence of many witnesses. We are to be BAPTIZED according to Acts 2:38 Then Peter said to them, "Repent, and let every one of you be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins; and you shall receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.” and Mark 16:16 He who believes and is baptized will be saved; but he who does not believe will be condemned. We are to CONTINUE to be FAITHFUL UNTIL DEATH according to Revelation 2:10c Be faithful until death, and I will give you the crown of life. We also know that Paul wrote in Romans 14:12 each of us shall give account of himself to God. It is important that we not ignore what is written, change what is written, or add to what is written in the New Testament which is our Christian Guide. Have a great day!
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