people(my parents) say that I am too young. I don't think so. my boyfriend doesn't think so. we are thinking about doing it prom night. I was all for it, but now I am having second thoughts.
2007-02-08 09:53:47 · 24 answers · asked by Italiandoll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I personally believe that a girl should be atleast 18 yrs to go for first sex experience .... that is only if she feels that she's ready for that irrespective of its consequences. But she must take full precautions against aids and should use contraceptives to avoid pregnancy. She should also keep this in mind that the person she will give her virginity may not be her life partner. If her mind is prepared for all this , she should go and get her cherry popped!!! Enjoy!!!
Sex is t he most wonderful feeling/experience... that everyone loves to do again.... and again and again.....
2007-02-08 18:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are, but I'm guessing you must be a junior or senior in high school since you mention prom.
Deciding when to have sex is personal decision. There is no one right age for everybody. However, my personal opinion is that it is typically a bad idea to have sex while you're still in high school.
Waiting till marriage...well, that's not for everybody. Maybe you don't want to get married or you don't have a moral objection to pre-marital sex. It's an ideal that may or may not work for you.
I'd at least wait until you are 1) moved out of your parents' home, 2) have a job and are financially independent, and 3) are with someone that you can be certain will stick around if you get pregnant. It's hard to know the possible ramifications of sex when you're still young. I'm not saying that to be patronising...it's just true. You'll probably appreciate sex more when you are a bit older.
As for your boyfriend not thinking you are too young... let's be realistic. He's a horny teenage boy. He's not thinking with his brain and he runs on testosterone. Don't let him pressure you into doing something you're having second thoughts about or you will probably wake up the next morning feeling bad about your decision. Chances are, he won't stick around with you for very long after graduation as you go your separate ways in life. A nice parting gift, but you might find it more satisfactory with someone who hangs around for awhile afterwards.
Only you can choose what you want to do, but whatever you decide, please remember to be safe about it. Definitely use a condom, but if you can, get on some kind of birth control a month beforehand, too. The last thing you want as a graduation gift is an STD or a kid.
2007-02-08 10:07:33 · answer #2 · answered by Venin_Noir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is simple, when you're young you think you already know everything. I did, most people do. We get told what to do by our parents, think they are meddling, but then we get older we realise they were trying to protect us because they are older and they DO know. Bit of a viscious circle really, but very true. I think you should be at least 16, but more-so, be emotionally ready and very self aware. I'm sure there are more people would have had their first sexual experience much later and most likely with someone else when they look back in years to come. So, your parents are trying to protect you because they love you, you are lucky, some parents don't care. Don't just do it for the sake of it or cos everyone else is, or pressure you. Making love is special, and so are you, don't give something so precious away unless you are absolutely sure. Good luck with your decision and hope you have a lovely prom night... we don't have them in the UK! Think we should!
2007-02-08 10:04:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well have u thought bout what if ya'll have a baby? then what are you going 2 do? see you also have 2 think a bout the actions afterwards 2! you never know you might get sometging 4rm your boyfriend. Do you know if he's tested?These are some of the things you have 2 think about!!!!What if he breaks up with you the very next day then goes and tells his friends? That will make u look easy
2007-02-08 10:05:34 · answer #4 · answered by babygurl15 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex until you are in a really committed relationship and you hopefully want to spend your lives together. Its the most important thing you'll ever do, so don't mess up on it. Best of luck. My parents made me wait until I was married and I was in relationship with the man I married, for 15 months, holding out for no good reason! We were totally committed, but would have felt so guilty doing it. Now I really wonder why!
2007-02-08 10:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by Norah B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
technically, a whore is a prostitute who has sex for money. So, technically, no. Then think about it this way, was she just letting anyone inside her for whatever reason whenever? No. They were specific circumstances. So, again, no. She's not out screwing guys just for the heck of it. I think you're being a tad judgemental. Not that she made wise decisions, but you're caring more about labellling her than caring for her. If you actually truly cared about her, you would focus on her and who she is now, not labelling her past. Grow up.
2016-05-23 22:39:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having second thoughts then you have answered this yourself. I would think you are too young and to be honest things like that are not planned or shouldn't be they just happen, only you need to be prepared like having contraception with you at all times just incase. I think you are too young.
2007-02-08 10:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by Bernie c 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A MASSIVE BIG DON'T Why do you want to anyway - way overrated - if you have doubts now imagine how big those doubts will be the morning after. Wait darlin until the right guy comes along or more especially wait until you are married - to the right guy of course.
2007-02-08 10:35:22 · answer #8 · answered by linda b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 is the official age, but if you need to ask , then you are not ready to embark on the physical side of a relationship yet! As for your b/friend saying it's OK...... well he would do wouldn't he? Something to boast about to his friends and something to bring your reputation down too! Forget sex for now and enjoy life! You are too young to be thinking of such things and should be enjoying your teen years !!
2007-02-08 10:03:18 · answer #9 · answered by bevalou 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
17-18. It is really not so much age as maturity. Sex is a serious emotional investment and a break up would be drastic. Be sure he is whom you want and be on protection such as condom/ birthcontrol.
2007-02-08 10:22:19 · answer #10 · answered by trigunmarksman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋