There was a girl I had a crush on for about 2 years and who had a crush on me for that same time. I waited till the fall of my freshman year of highschool to finally ask her out because I didn't feel like I was ready for a girlfriend in middle school. After two weeks we broke up because she didn't feel like she was ready for a relationship, but we remained close friends. About 3 weeks ago she told me that she still liked me, but still wasn't ready for a relationship. I recently found out though, that she now likes a differant guy and that they might start going out soon. I thought about getting over her but she is still one of my very few good friends and I'm afraid that by getting over her it might hurt our friendship. There also isn't any other girl that I'm even slightly interested in right now so there's isn't someone else I could crush on. So my question is should I try and get over her, try and get her to like me again, or should i just stay how I am now?
2007-02-08 09:32:29 · 10 answers · asked by staber095 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I fell like since she liked me three weeks ago still, I can still get her to like me again.
2007-02-08 09:33:01 · update #1
I should also have mentioned that although I do not know what it is, but I do not feel like I have been being myself to much in the last month or two.
2007-02-08 09:45:19 · update #2
YOU KIDZ .....YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH ANYTHING.....
LEAVE IT ALONE!...SHE LIKED YOU LAST WEEK THIS WEEK IS SOME ONE ELSE SHE IS TOTALLY NOT READY FOR YOU MOVE ON!
2007-02-08 09:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by A. RMZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it didn't work out then, and she still wasn't ready for a relationship, it probably won't work out too well now, and she even likes another guy. There are many other fish in the sea, and maybe you like each other as friends so much you think you want a relationship. Sometimes a relationship is not supposed to happen between a friendship. Get over her, I've had your same problem, I am still good friends with the guy.
If you really like her THAT much, then go right ahead, but there is a chance of rejection again.
2007-02-08 09:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by Pakhi Pardesi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what she's really saying is that she's not ready for a relationship with YOU and she seems pretty clear on that. I would advise you to move on. I know you say there are no other girls you are remotely interested in right now, but you might see someone in a different light once you've given up carrying a torch for the other girl. Even if you truly don't see anyone else yet that you are interested in, you can take it from me that you won't die or be arrested or break out in a hideous rash from head to toe if you are without a girlfriend for a while.
2007-02-08 09:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't have to "get" her to like you. Either she likes you enough to date you, or she wants to be just friends. If you try to pursue her and she is interested romantically in someone else, you could drive a wedge in your friendship, and sometimes it is best to just wait and see what happens.
2007-02-08 09:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by cvjade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay friends with her. And also you should move on and find you a girl that likes you for more then a friend
2007-02-08 09:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by southg11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get over her and the friendship won't go away unless you make it. go find some one else if you need to.
2007-02-08 09:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by devilsqueen74 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go after her she doesn't really like u shes playing games. and this is from a girl.....
2007-02-08 09:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stay relaxed and do what u do and be patient ur time will come
2007-02-08 09:35:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anna Nicole Smith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else
2007-02-08 09:40:13 · answer #9 · answered by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over herrrr.
2007-02-08 09:35:07 · answer #10 · answered by mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋