alright i am a 15 year old freshman
ive been told im pretty good looking, but im kinda shy and ive had a gf b4 but it didn't rly work out. so to be a good bf wat do i need to do?
how often do i have to call the girl if i have to call her at all?
im not rly good at talking on the phone. also, how often should i see her, take her to the movies, etc.? also, when should the first kiss be? And what are some ideal dates to take her on?
2007-02-08 09:31:50 · 15 answers · asked by danthemainman01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not danny haggerty? but i dont have a cell phone cause my parents r too cheao to buy me one
2007-02-08 09:49:19 · update #1
Is this danny haggarty?
2007-02-08 09:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
There are no hard and fast rules on dating, but yes you need to call her, how often depends on how you feel about each other. If you don't like talking on the phone make the call to arrange to meet and talk in person. You are young and so unless you go to the same school, where you can meet at breaks or walk her home, then the weekend would be the best time to meet. The 1st kiss, you will know when the time is right, it depends on the girl and she will give you signals such as getting close and snuggling up and lifting her face towards you. Movies, walks, picnics, to the pool to swim, nothing fancy it is more about spending time together and getting to know one another.
2007-02-14 10:29:37 · answer #2 · answered by ELIZABETH M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of having a boyfriend in high school is having him phone you every night, even if only for a short time. You should see her once on the weekend and hang out with her at school. Do you hold hands with her and hug her when you see her? Then anytime now you can kiss her goodbye after a date. An ideal date is a long ride to a beautiful spot and bring a picnic. Or, a school dance.
2007-02-08 09:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by Raven 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I love these kind of questions, first, when she gives you her # you shouldn't call immediately wait at least 4-5 days that way you have stuff to talk about that happened over those few days, but if you already go out with her then call her every other day, unless she calls you. When it comes to going places (dates) first place is somewhere like the movies, it's always nice to have the first kiss in the movies mostly because it is dark and everyone isn't paying attention to you because they wanna watch the movie, but make sure that you pay for everything, females, like me, loooooove it when guys offer to pay for everything, make sure you offer to pay when you ask her does she want to go. And since valentines day is coming up don't ask her what she wants, just surprise her, i know that she will loooove the little teddy bears that magnetically kiss, and maybe some roses. Surprise her.
2007-02-08 09:44:28 · answer #4 · answered by Cutie09 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
being yourself is the best route calls i would suggest when you miss her sweet tone and of course ask the lady where she would like to go if she is indecisive make the suggestion of what ever you into and do when it suits both of you to weekends not sure do your parents allow school nights etc and then the first kiss you will feel it inside the urge work on instinct you will see things fall into place once you have a gf enjoy lol & good luck for your future romancing
2007-02-16 09:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by MinX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well , always be there for her, listen to her and respect her, always be faithful, and careing to her, make her feel good about herself, tell her that she's pretty , and have nice eyes, stuff like that , call her anytimke you want , take her to the movies, or to lunch or dinner, and try to make her laugh.
2007-02-08 10:19:00 · answer #6 · answered by kitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From a girls perspective I reckon you should be yourself. Call her when you feel like it, kiss her when it feels right, see her when you want to. Find someone you like and then you shouldn't have to try as hard cause everything will just feel right.
Hope this helps and good luck.
2007-02-08 09:38:37 · answer #7 · answered by vikky t 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
RELAX!!!! Girls just want a shoulder to cry on, a nice bf who cares about her feeling and the mushy gushy stuff like that. Take some deep breaths and chill.
2007-02-08 09:38:17 · answer #8 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if you guys are dating and serious you should be talking everyday, any free time you have should be with her, and possibly some friends. you should see he whenever you can, or have time, and you guys should be going out on a date every weekend. take her to the movies, to dinner, make her dinner, bowling is fun, skiing, or whatever you guys are into.
2007-02-08 09:37:17 · answer #9 · answered by Jamie Lynn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey slow down........have u got a gf atm? b urself, b faithful and dont lie to her. ask her where she wants to go. u dont hav 2talk there is such a thing as text! again ask her when she wants to c u. can b on first date, no harm there. dinner, movies, mini golf (in summer) newhere u can b together.
2007-02-08 09:38:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wonder if anyone else shares my opinion that if you are really interested in the girl you will be a good boyfriend automatically!
2007-02-13 01:40:50 · answer #11 · answered by MI5 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋