ok heres the deal. i was going out with this guy. (*jonny) for about 4 days and i broke up with him bc my best freind (*stacie) liked him. i didnt want her to feel bad or like the third wheel.(i no im stupid). but 4 days later...she goes to his house. stuff happens and then they go out without telling me. but i find out and gosh it hurt me so bad. they are off and on for about 2 months. well for about 2 days he cheated on her with me. only kiss. thats it. no nothing else. i stoped it and life went on. this happend around september. ever since then hes been tryin to get me and her. we stopd being friends but now we started tlkn. *stacies mom wanted us to tell each other everything about *jonny bc ppl told me they were going out again.i told *stacie today about him cheatin on her with me and she flipped out and doesnt want to tlk to me and wants space. but she says she forgives me. should i just back off and let her have space? should i just take all the blame even tho she hurt me too.
2007-02-08 08:53:05 · 5 answers · asked by kole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your not to blame you had him first and you broke up with him because you didn't want to hurt her.. thats being a good friend. If you really want to be friends with her after all this then give her space but you don't have to stay friends with her. And don't mess around with that guy anymore He's not worth it. He's even worse then your friend.
And I'm not saying that you should have done what you did but at least you told her.
2007-02-08 09:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by butterfly7583 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always remember, friends come first. There is a line which you never cross as friends you never date your friends BF or vice versa, if you do you are not really friends! You have both broken the golden rule, sit down with her and you both need to come to the conclusion that this guy is NO GOOD for EITHER of you. Continue your friendship and make a deal that no MAN will ever come between you two again, agree never to date each others BF's or EX BF's. That will take care of this problem!
2007-02-08 17:07:45 · answer #2 · answered by Rhonda B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she seems to be the bad friend, because if she was a good friend she wouldn't have let you brake up with him so that she can have him. think about it: she didn't care how you felt, i think she was the bad friend and you were too good
2007-02-08 17:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by robe_genious1@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure once you both realize what a jerk this guy johnny is then you'll both be probably better off :)
then you get back together as friends over bitching about what a jerk he is..
2007-02-08 16:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SERIOUSLY, I WOULD FIND NEW FRIENDS ..STAY AWAY FROM THEM TWO , CAUSE IF STACIE GETS PREGNANT , THEIR GOING TO BLAME YOU FOR INTRODUCING HER TO THAT GUY (JONNY) ..REMEMBER , PEOPLE ARE LIKE THAT , GOD BLESS YOU ..I HOPE YOU FIND NEW FRIENDS!
2007-02-08 16:58:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋