I have been with my boyfriend for 6years and he is 41 years old and he will be 42 in 3 months. at all started last year when all of a sudden he didn't want to go out to a movie and out to eat are do anything we use to do, and we have sex every other week and when I met him we use to have sex every day and I ask him whats wrong he said that he is tired are he is getting old I don't know what to do because I'm only 24 years old and I really would like it to be like it use to be.
2007-02-08 08:49:57 · 12 answers · asked by ALLEYCAT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-02-08 08:52:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I believe it's an unfortunate situation for you. Your young and you have needs and wants that he will not be able to fill. That's not particularly your fault.
You can try to help the situation, it's always good to create new things when you and your partner are getting "bored" of the same ol'.
Try some of these things: have sex in a public place, this provides the rush of being caught and stimulates both parties. Role playing, this brings diversity into having a session and makes things exciting. This will allow you to do things that's out the ordinary.
If those things don't seem like they help you guys then you might wanna find someone your age that's has the love and a good sexual appetite.
2007-02-08 09:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by DLB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave is it really worth it? There are usually reasons why guys stop having sex so much either they are tired (even though I haven't met one that would have sex when they are tired) or they are getting it somewhere else. And not wanting to go to a movie or dinner with you makes me think the second option
2007-02-08 08:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by kingsgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be to increase the spice in your relationship. If he doesn't want to go out, when he comes home from work have a really fancy meal cooked and have on some sexy lingere have some candles going along with some music and inscents. have some massage oil handy when he gets home run his bath water wash his back and feet make him get out and give him a warm back and neck massage. If this doesn't get him out the drag that he is in I got news for you its time to go. but before you just go because you have love for this man try what i suggested
2007-02-08 08:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by drightchristy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it really *could* be that he's getting old and that he's tired. After a while, the honeymooner-like passion is going to burn out of a relationship, though the love will remain--especially when you get to be that age.
2007-02-08 08:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by Casey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him. 6 yrs and no mariage this guy obviously has commitment problems. if ur only 24 and remotely ok looking u could have a new boyfriend really quickly. Give me a email and i would answer(unless ur ugly)
2007-02-08 08:53:46 · answer #6 · answered by wassup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be suffering from depression. Tell him you're concerned and suggest he see a doctor. 42 isn't that old anymore!
2007-02-08 08:56:15 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you wasting your time with an OLD man?
If he is too tired and old to make you happy, you need to move on!
Life is too short to spend it on the couch...if he really loves you- he will make an effort.
2007-02-08 08:53:22 · answer #8 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, tell him you are thinking of trading him in for a younger model because you are bored!
2007-02-08 08:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him he is too old for you, he will never keep up or satisfy your needs.
2007-02-08 09:04:04 · answer #10 · answered by Rhonda B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what day do you guys have sex every other week?
2007-02-08 08:58:40 · answer #11 · answered by jack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋