Theres this girl that i like and that i have been told likes me. I text her and talk to her on msn, but when i do she takes ages to reply. I texted her the other day and didnt get a reply for 3 hours, and the same again another day. She dosent even apolgise for taking so long. She sometimes ignores my texts. On msn i ask her a simple question and it take her 20 mins to reply, other times she doesn't even reply. I really don't feel i am coming on too strong at all and have asked my friends for advice and they don't understand. I am totally confused as i thought she liked me, but i am begining to feel like she dosen't. What is she doing? Is she playing hard to get? What should i do?
2007-02-08 08:48:53 · 16 answers · asked by eastlondoner21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe she's busy talking to other people......if I were you I'd do the same, talk to other people
2007-02-08 08:52:31 · answer #1 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same situation 3 years ago. It's sad but she probably doesn't care for you and wants to use you when she needs some help, just like an fire button with "break glass in case of emergency". She wants you to stay there and she'll break that glass when she'll need someone to talk.
The best thing you can do is to ignore and forget her, I know that it's god damn HARD bud try to do like that. If she likes or loves you, she'll find a way to show that to you anyway. So YOU do NOT send any messages to her, let her do that if she cares about you.
And do not believe the others that say her computer is old etc. If that would be the situation, she would at least tell that to you as an excuse.
2007-02-08 17:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by answerboy119 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible that she's just busy??? and not waiting around every second of the day for you to text her or send her a message??? Maybe she just leaves her msn on without realizing and starts doing something else?
2007-02-08 16:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by soft rockstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know sometimes it takes really long for people to get their text messages... Like my friend sent me one and i received it the next day... As for the msn thing mayber her computer is slow? There some people who just don't like texting and iming like myself... Why don't you try calling her for a change. Good luck.
2007-02-08 16:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by cremedelacreme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just bc you are sitting around on the computer- doesn't mean she is! She's probably busy. Why don't you call her and talk direct? It seems like you are the one playing games, if you like her then get on with it!
It also sounds like you are being a little clingy...back off, she'll come around if she's interested.
2007-02-08 16:58:18 · answer #5 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is just fishing & has many lines in the water at once..... chatting with many guys at the same time & from what you've written - your captain back up when the others go to the bathroom.
It is up to you. but by all means you do the same..... chat up as many girls as you can an put her on the back burner for a bit. you might just find a nice girl who is much better than the one your chasing.
2007-02-08 16:54:11 · answer #6 · answered by dharp66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She lives more of her life in the real world than in the virtual world, as we all should. Face it, dude, she's just not that into you. Try interacting with her in person, instead of trying to create a relationship from words on screen.
2007-02-08 16:56:40 · answer #7 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, wheres your source? who told you she liked you? have you excluded the probablity that the person was just jacking you?
another is that she might be really shy and cant decide how to answer your questions, either ways, dont contact her too often and see what happens. but dont disappear altogether. she might be playing hard to get. :)
2007-02-08 16:52:41 · answer #8 · answered by mintaeo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they have this new device for comunicating with wemon it works real good its your mouth talk to her then you can find out if she just likes u as a friend or more an she can see your intrest in her is more than just an email try it u might be suprized how well it works !!!!!!!!!!! good luck
2007-02-08 16:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by slapjack458 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a girl and if a guy i liked texted me i would take forever to reply b/c i would like have to be like "yesss he likes me!!!!!!!!!!" And think of the perfect thing to right back.
2007-02-08 16:54:18 · answer #10 · answered by Gym_Dog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously is too busy to bother with you. Find you someone who cares and respects you instead of someone who obviously doesn't care or she would respond to you faster.
2007-02-08 17:08:16 · answer #11 · answered by Rhonda B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋