2007-02-08 08:32:49 · 10 answers · asked by whitecloud_ice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You haven't given any information about what your parents object to about your lover. How can anyone suggest ways to fix the problem if they don't know the nature of it?
2007-02-08 08:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by Yo' Mama 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are asking about persuading your parents, it's not that easy. If you are asking about his parents, it takes time. Your parent's probably need to get to know him the way you do. Just keep bringing him around and make it known to your parents that he is the one you want to grow old with. Good Luck...
2007-02-08 09:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by mrs. savealot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They will have to come to terms with the subject on their own. There is nothing you can do to persuade them. If you keep pressuring them and they give in, they will never be truly accepting of your relationship - and they may never be. You'll just have to decide on your own what the right thing to do is.
2007-02-08 10:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
right here's a question for you - if he believes the observe of a random individual who defames you presently, formerly you're married, how are you able to anticipate him to take your section with all of us else after the marriage takes place ? the only element you're able to do to alter his ideas-set is refer to him, and clarify your section. provide him some days to take a seat back down, and make a mature decison, and provide a mature reaction. If he nevertheless needs to look down on you, then you definately've some complicated judgements to make: one million) Is it relatively worth it to objective to push your dad and mom to settle on your marriage to somebody who would not coach you appreciate ? 2) in case your marriage pushes your loved ones away, will you sense sorry approximately it in a while ? 3) are you able to be proud of his ideas-set for something of your married lifestyles ? You deserve somebody who can assist you, have faith in you, and coach you appreciate. better of success!
2016-12-17 12:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take time. Let them get to know him instead of being on the defensive with them.You have to trust them and encourage a natural sense of development in the situation.
2007-02-08 09:24:33 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsay Jane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents do not not accept people we bring in our lives. That is why they call them THE MOTHER IN LAW AND THE FATHER IN LAW. Just get hitched and have a outing with them, to get to know him better
2007-02-08 08:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by Fievel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well your parents should just accept that thats who you love and thats who you want spend your life with
2007-02-08 08:39:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you 18?
Marry who you want.
2007-02-08 08:40:54 · answer #8 · answered by miketorse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever think that they might have a reason? Ask, I bet they have a good answer.
2007-02-08 11:17:18 · answer #9 · answered by blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this does not compute
2007-02-08 08:59:06 · answer #10 · answered by lidakamo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋