I'm 17 & an internet author. Last February a girl my age reviewed my work, then I reviewed hers, & it turned out we had a lot in common, in our lives as well as interests. Around that time I found I was bisexual & developed a crush that's turned serious.
We've been emailing/IMing for months & I'm confident that I know her pretty well. I know about internet security & fraud but I'm 99.99% sure she's genuine.
Both of us have similar problems & can relate to each other. I have counselling but I don't have anyone else in my life that I can openly relate to or confide in. We both have self-esteem issues & are very open to each other about our flaws.
She lives in the US & at present travel is not an option. If she felt the same way I would be able to wait until we were older for us to have a proper relationship. I'm going to let her know how I feel in a way she can ignore if it's not returned.
Advice on the possibilities of a long-term relationship?
2007-02-08 08:20:21 · 8 answers · asked by muffin75 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could go either way. It would be best if you could relax about it, stay positive, and keep your options open, rather than be creepy and intense, which might scare her off.
2007-02-08 08:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by Specsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in touch with her and over time I'm sure you will find out whether what you feel is curiousity or something deeper. Meanwhile, keep open to other people. The attraction you feel for this other girl maybe just a genuine friendship and because you have found someone with many things in common. Good luck.
2007-02-08 16:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by vikky t 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is she bisexual too? If you are not sure of her sexuality you run the risk of losing a good friend, she might be unhappy to continue with someone that she can't feel the same about. I'd suggest you get the discussion round to sex and sexuality, not an unusual subject for teenage girls, and find out how she feels be fore you declare your feelings for her.
2007-02-16 08:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ellie L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not in love. You are intrigued. Enjoy it for what it is, and if at some poiunt in the future in develops into more take that when it comes.
As for your self-esteem issue, can I simply say that you are unique and, therefore, special. Do not sell yourself short.
2007-02-08 16:33:17 · answer #4 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both happy with the situation, then whats the problem? Go with the flow :)
Best of luck
2007-02-08 16:55:20 · answer #5 · answered by choca-locka-baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is a possibility, keep talking to her and maybe whatever it is that u feel towards her is true, then u will know what the next move would be.
2007-02-08 16:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your tongue into shape!
2007-02-14 07:00:15 · answer #7 · answered by The_Truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please get a Bible and read it.
2007-02-08 20:18:34 · answer #8 · answered by Paul 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋